Treat her like a dude...

[iluvfemales]

I read an article on this site a while ago. It said that if you treat a women thats really attractive like a guy then it makes the first approach easier.
I kept this in mind when I hit on girls in my college. I relized that the benifit from this mentaility is that you focus less on the sexual part of the women and more on the personality. Because of this you become more genuine which she reconizes in your tone and body language.
To add to this I also read an article in mens fitness which said that when a male gets nervous around a female by making up fake situations in his head (like assuming she doesn't like you) that the part of your brain that is used in planning situations and communication get closed off. It is the byproduct of lust.
By pretending like shes a guy in my own mind I was able to have much more causual conversations with girls, come up with more topics and be more spontaneous.

 

[italostud]

You're just covering up for your fear of talking to women. If you're treating girls you're interested in like "dudes", you're not going to be approaching them the right way.

You're using this behaviour as a bandaid. Instead of covering up the problem, fix it.

 

[iluvfemales]

Thats good point but I tend to work through situations by proving to my mind that if it doesn't kill you, then it makes you stronger. I liked this stratgy because it help give an initial push which helps to get over the fear.

 

[Create Reality]

To me it sounds more like a strategy for finding an LTR than a ONS, it all depends on the type of girl I suppose. Good luck.

 

[Skullcrusher]

This works for the more aggressive women out there. When I mean aggressive, I mean tomboy - I mean women who are the first to grab the microphone at a karaoke contest.

Aggressive women appreciate directness and being to the point, much like a man. Unfortunately they exist in less than 15% of women population.

Each women is different, so treat them differently.