"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Travelling information - how do I plan my holiday?

Heretolearn

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Hi,

I want to travel. I live in Australia.

I shall go by myself.

I want to go through Europe and the middle east preferably.

Where do you stay? As in good cheap but safe places. How long do you think you need?

How much money do you think you need?

I have never really been on a holiday. I love living places to get a feel for them normally.

How do I plan my holiday?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What is the meaning of life?

It think your questions are to open for anyone to really answer them, try adding what you want, the most important question.
 

Heretolearn

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sorry - my bad communication skills.

I guess I wanted a thread where everyone could tell of their holidaying experiences and I could get ideas for my own.

So explain about your holidays gentlemen, the good the bad, the planned and what really happened etc.
 
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