Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Traveling to Spain and Italy.

DonDelaVega

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Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonDelaVega said:
Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
I've never been to Spain or Italy but I've been to Europe 8 times and the women are incredible. Have a great time and just go with the flow. Don't let the pursuit of women infringe on the cultural experience you will be having. Good luck.
 

DonDelaVega

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Thanks Romangod,

Anyone here though with experience in the 2 countries?
 

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DonDelaVega said:
Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
Yes, I'm familiar with those places, especially Italy.


My experience is that your chances in terms of sarging in the broad (!) sense are not generally good with the locals unless you have an IN, meaning solid contacts with local people who can introduce you to people and then you develop rapport. It's much more difficult for an outsider to be allowed in, unless you're fairly young, charismatic, and know your way around the disco scene. But even then the cultural hurdles can be daunting, including remnants of the Madonna/Hore syndrome.

Your best chances, and they can be very good, are with fellow travelers, especially Americans, Australians, Brits, etc. And let's not forget Scandinavians.:up:

Best is large cities, worst is smaller towns.

Spain probably more difficult (conservative) unless it's Madrid or Barcelona.

I scored big time following the above guidelines- people get really really loose when traveling. I walked into a Roman restaurant once, spotted a knockout sitting with her parents, Brits. I walked over, charmed them, and within 15 minutes was making out in front of the parents (stupid, but just to give an example). It's soooo easy.

And just a cautionary note too- if you are not familiar with these cultures, you do NOT want to put yourself at risk by making moves, taking liberties with the locals unless you are ABSOLUTELY sure you are not crossing lines and potentially offending someone. For example, if you are in the the South of Italy, more remote parts of Spain, you are taking your life in your hands by touching, looking, or speaking to a woman in a way that could be misconstrued. If she is very young or a virgin, you are dead meat.
Not to make you paranoid, you'll be ok if you keep your wits about you and are sensitive to the environment. ALWAYS take your cues from the natives and your own instincts.

As I said, best to stick to other travelers, primarily English speaking.

Bring lots of condoms. Have fun. Bang one for me.
 

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One more thing: I've never been, but the Hungarians have the reputation for the being the horniest and most sexually active. Check it out and report back...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonDelaVega

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so they are harder to sarge then americans?

well I have no chance in hell then:(
 

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Juando said:
One more thing: I've never been, but the Hungarians have the reputation for the being the horniest and most sexually active. Check it out and report back...
I can confirm this rumour :yes:
 

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DonDelaVega said:
so they are harder to sarge then americans?

well I have no chance in hell then:(
How old are you?
How much traveling have you done?

If you are young, have not traveled much, your main concern should be to open yourself up to an incredible new experience that will afford you opportunities for more growth and adventures than you can imagine. You will grow, especially if you throw yourself into it with no preconceived notions and allow yourself to go off the beaten path.

You will be surrounded by women and probably in ways that you are not accustomed to and who knows what can happen. You may come back a stronger dj for the experience.

"Sarging" sounds trite and small-minded in this context. Drop it. Just be yourself and see what happens.
 

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Spain is the bomb for meeting women. You dont deal with nearly the same level of b!tch shields you do back home. Women are not as rude or demanding either. Overall it's a much warmer culture where there is more bonding and physical contact, so feel free to kino more than usual.

The same goes for Italy, but you really got your work cut out for you there. Italian dudes are aggressive seducers (kind of cave-man style), so you really need a dominant frame to hook anything.

Either way, you have the exotic factor working for you, so play on that and let your sense of adventure take you places.

One thing is certain.. this trip will change the way you see your world in a big way. Enjoy the ride!
 

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I got back from italy in November last year. Hope you have a fantastic time. You have SEVERAL things going in your favor. You are a foreign piece of meat, and you have a hotel room. Italians live at home with momma, they can't get together for a romp at their home, so its the car, or the park. You have a room, thats an edge. Don't forget to look at your fellow tourists, especially the scandanavians.. They "all speak english". So if you hear a nordic accent, by all means intruduce yourself. Good luck and enjoy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Juando did a great job. Props to him. He knows!! Italy is a fascinating country, but if you are only looking for girls you are going to the wrong place. Is this some sort of trip with your parents?

Estonia, Latvia :rockon: , Lithuania, Belarus, Ukraine :cheer: , Russia, and Moldova. "Nuff said. The rest of Europe is about good food and nice trains. If they have a Double Coffee and the tap water makes you sick you will be very happy.

BTW, don't tell me about some student or immigrant you know from the above countries. NOT THE SAME!!

BTW, favorite Italian place is actually in Switzerland. Lugano is really pretty. Great place to walk. The lake is beautiful. Just a really nice town.
 
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