"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Traveling to Spain and Italy.

DonDelaVega

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Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DonDelaVega said:
Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
I've never been to Spain or Italy but I've been to Europe 8 times and the women are incredible. Have a great time and just go with the flow. Don't let the pursuit of women infringe on the cultural experience you will be having. Good luck.
 

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Thanks Romangod,

Anyone here though with experience in the 2 countries?
 

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DonDelaVega said:
Hi all,

I have been invited by my friends to meet them and travel through a few european countries.

I always wanted to go into europe and meet the ladies there.

Has anyone been to spain and italy?

How is the sarging like?

Are the ladies generally hot there?

I am so excited and neverous at the same time?

thanks
Yes, I'm familiar with those places, especially Italy.


My experience is that your chances in terms of sarging in the broad (!) sense are not generally good with the locals unless you have an IN, meaning solid contacts with local people who can introduce you to people and then you develop rapport. It's much more difficult for an outsider to be allowed in, unless you're fairly young, charismatic, and know your way around the disco scene. But even then the cultural hurdles can be daunting, including remnants of the Madonna/Hore syndrome.

Your best chances, and they can be very good, are with fellow travelers, especially Americans, Australians, Brits, etc. And let's not forget Scandinavians.:up:

Best is large cities, worst is smaller towns.

Spain probably more difficult (conservative) unless it's Madrid or Barcelona.

I scored big time following the above guidelines- people get really really loose when traveling. I walked into a Roman restaurant once, spotted a knockout sitting with her parents, Brits. I walked over, charmed them, and within 15 minutes was making out in front of the parents (stupid, but just to give an example). It's soooo easy.

And just a cautionary note too- if you are not familiar with these cultures, you do NOT want to put yourself at risk by making moves, taking liberties with the locals unless you are ABSOLUTELY sure you are not crossing lines and potentially offending someone. For example, if you are in the the South of Italy, more remote parts of Spain, you are taking your life in your hands by touching, looking, or speaking to a woman in a way that could be misconstrued. If she is very young or a virgin, you are dead meat.
Not to make you paranoid, you'll be ok if you keep your wits about you and are sensitive to the environment. ALWAYS take your cues from the natives and your own instincts.

As I said, best to stick to other travelers, primarily English speaking.

Bring lots of condoms. Have fun. Bang one for me.
 

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One more thing: I've never been, but the Hungarians have the reputation for the being the horniest and most sexually active. Check it out and report back...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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so they are harder to sarge then americans?

well I have no chance in hell then:(
 

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Juando said:
One more thing: I've never been, but the Hungarians have the reputation for the being the horniest and most sexually active. Check it out and report back...
I can confirm this rumour :yes:
 

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DonDelaVega said:
so they are harder to sarge then americans?

well I have no chance in hell then:(
How old are you?
How much traveling have you done?

If you are young, have not traveled much, your main concern should be to open yourself up to an incredible new experience that will afford you opportunities for more growth and adventures than you can imagine. You will grow, especially if you throw yourself into it with no preconceived notions and allow yourself to go off the beaten path.

You will be surrounded by women and probably in ways that you are not accustomed to and who knows what can happen. You may come back a stronger dj for the experience.

"Sarging" sounds trite and small-minded in this context. Drop it. Just be yourself and see what happens.
 

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Spain is the bomb for meeting women. You dont deal with nearly the same level of b!tch shields you do back home. Women are not as rude or demanding either. Overall it's a much warmer culture where there is more bonding and physical contact, so feel free to kino more than usual.

The same goes for Italy, but you really got your work cut out for you there. Italian dudes are aggressive seducers (kind of cave-man style), so you really need a dominant frame to hook anything.

Either way, you have the exotic factor working for you, so play on that and let your sense of adventure take you places.

One thing is certain.. this trip will change the way you see your world in a big way. Enjoy the ride!
 

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I got back from italy in November last year. Hope you have a fantastic time. You have SEVERAL things going in your favor. You are a foreign piece of meat, and you have a hotel room. Italians live at home with momma, they can't get together for a romp at their home, so its the car, or the park. You have a room, thats an edge. Don't forget to look at your fellow tourists, especially the scandanavians.. They "all speak english". So if you hear a nordic accent, by all means intruduce yourself. Good luck and enjoy.
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Juando did a great job. Props to him. He knows!! Italy is a fascinating country, but if you are only looking for girls you are going to the wrong place. Is this some sort of trip with your parents?

Estonia, Latvia :rockon: , Lithuania, Belarus, Ukraine :cheer: , Russia, and Moldova. "Nuff said. The rest of Europe is about good food and nice trains. If they have a Double Coffee and the tap water makes you sick you will be very happy.

BTW, don't tell me about some student or immigrant you know from the above countries. NOT THE SAME!!

BTW, favorite Italian place is actually in Switzerland. Lugano is really pretty. Great place to walk. The lake is beautiful. Just a really nice town.
 
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