"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Traveling to South America for three months need help on country!

bachelor

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Guys I need your help on this one. I've been doing a ton of research, but that doesn't help unless you have other input.

Here's the deal:

I'm traveling with two other guy friends and we want to hit up South America and stay in a country there for a few months for vacation and gaming girls. We will be there from January thru March. I would like to be close to the beach and in a tropical climate. As of right now, I'm locked into Ecuador (Guayaquil) and Peru (Lima).

What I'm looking for is a country with good looking women to sarge, warm weather, pretty cheap, big city, good internet access, (I work online), and cool people.

I'm open to Colombia and other Spanish speaking countries if you guys got some feed.

Thx
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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speakeasy

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we want to hit up South America and stay in that country
FYI, South America is a continent, not a country. ;-)

There is a DJ named Roosh that did exactly what you are planning. Travelled around S. America and gaming chics. He's got all kinds of blogs about it and a forum where you can ask him whatever you want about it. I want to go to S. America too and I wrote him and he gave me some great advice. Check out his site: rooshv.com

From what I've read, sounds like Brazil is your best bet to get all things you want. Watch what you eat in the poorer countries, Roosh's stomach is permanently fvcked up he says.
 

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I know it's a continent. What I meant to say is to stay in a country in South America for 3 months. Regardless, do you have any information on Ecuador or Peru? Brazil would be nice, however I am going down there for Spanish.

Anyone on the board with information on Colombia?
 

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Why are you going to Guayaqil? Quito is much nicer(i cant believe i said that) if you know where to look. And if you're going to Ecuador you might as well fork out the big bucks and see the Galapagos Islands. It's a priceless trip to take and worth every penny. Sell your computer for enough money to get out there, sell your front door, sell the kitchen sink :D do what you have to to go to the Galapagos.

I'd sell my left nut to go back there again.

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As for women to sarge, personally I didn't notice one attractive girl in all of Ecuador. They all look stoic and downtrodden.

I can't tell you much about Peru, good luck.
 

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Also.. Columbia is very beautiful country, but if you dont have contacts down there, forget it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My mate is from colombia and he always goes on about it. And my experience with argentinians is that they have a large percentage of sexy and cool people (though I'll admit I haven't seen a statistically representative sample). Um, that's all I can think of :p
 

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Costa Rica, My Birth Place.

Rainforests, Pristine Beaches, your money takes you far, and a much lower crime rate than other latin american countries (most anyway), good internet access (i've gotten a few webcam friend there), and like you say, most people are pretty cool.

Look up some safety guides for wherever you choose, and stay on your toes. You don't want to lose a kidney.

I'm going next summer, gonna be ****ing A!
 

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Nygard said:
Colombia is not a suicide option lately.
Believe me, I'm right here :p
Nygard how long have you been in Colombia? I keep hearing the women in Medellin are irresistible, but how is internet access and living? Also, how is the weather there? I read it gets pretty chilly because of the altitude.

Quicksilver were the women in Ecuador really that bad? I chose Guayaquil because it's close to the water. If the women there are really bad you can forget about me going there.

Costa Rica isn't expensive? I thought it might be because of all the expats there figured they would have raised the prices.

Saw some cool stuff on Nicaragua too..... Hit me up guys
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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