"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Traveling to South America for three months need help on country!

bachelor

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Guys I need your help on this one. I've been doing a ton of research, but that doesn't help unless you have other input.

Here's the deal:

I'm traveling with two other guy friends and we want to hit up South America and stay in a country there for a few months for vacation and gaming girls. We will be there from January thru March. I would like to be close to the beach and in a tropical climate. As of right now, I'm locked into Ecuador (Guayaquil) and Peru (Lima).

What I'm looking for is a country with good looking women to sarge, warm weather, pretty cheap, big city, good internet access, (I work online), and cool people.

I'm open to Colombia and other Spanish speaking countries if you guys got some feed.

Thx
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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speakeasy

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we want to hit up South America and stay in that country
FYI, South America is a continent, not a country. ;-)

There is a DJ named Roosh that did exactly what you are planning. Travelled around S. America and gaming chics. He's got all kinds of blogs about it and a forum where you can ask him whatever you want about it. I want to go to S. America too and I wrote him and he gave me some great advice. Check out his site: rooshv.com

From what I've read, sounds like Brazil is your best bet to get all things you want. Watch what you eat in the poorer countries, Roosh's stomach is permanently fvcked up he says.
 

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I know it's a continent. What I meant to say is to stay in a country in South America for 3 months. Regardless, do you have any information on Ecuador or Peru? Brazil would be nice, however I am going down there for Spanish.

Anyone on the board with information on Colombia?
 

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Why are you going to Guayaqil? Quito is much nicer(i cant believe i said that) if you know where to look. And if you're going to Ecuador you might as well fork out the big bucks and see the Galapagos Islands. It's a priceless trip to take and worth every penny. Sell your computer for enough money to get out there, sell your front door, sell the kitchen sink :D do what you have to to go to the Galapagos.

I'd sell my left nut to go back there again.

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As for women to sarge, personally I didn't notice one attractive girl in all of Ecuador. They all look stoic and downtrodden.

I can't tell you much about Peru, good luck.
 

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Also.. Columbia is very beautiful country, but if you dont have contacts down there, forget it.
 

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You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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My mate is from colombia and he always goes on about it. And my experience with argentinians is that they have a large percentage of sexy and cool people (though I'll admit I haven't seen a statistically representative sample). Um, that's all I can think of :p
 

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Costa Rica, My Birth Place.

Rainforests, Pristine Beaches, your money takes you far, and a much lower crime rate than other latin american countries (most anyway), good internet access (i've gotten a few webcam friend there), and like you say, most people are pretty cool.

Look up some safety guides for wherever you choose, and stay on your toes. You don't want to lose a kidney.

I'm going next summer, gonna be ****ing A!
 

bachelor

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Nygard said:
Colombia is not a suicide option lately.
Believe me, I'm right here :p
Nygard how long have you been in Colombia? I keep hearing the women in Medellin are irresistible, but how is internet access and living? Also, how is the weather there? I read it gets pretty chilly because of the altitude.

Quicksilver were the women in Ecuador really that bad? I chose Guayaquil because it's close to the water. If the women there are really bad you can forget about me going there.

Costa Rica isn't expensive? I thought it might be because of all the expats there figured they would have raised the prices.

Saw some cool stuff on Nicaragua too..... Hit me up guys
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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