"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Traveling to Europe!!

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Where would be the best place to buy 3 round trip tix from San Francisco to London? Would you use internet? Newspaper?

How would you go about researching prices?

If you guys know anything or have any pointer,s let me know. This is a month-long tour of Europe. Depart June 21st, arrive back home july 21st.

Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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4 weeks in Europe. Very nice. Are you going w/ a tour group? I only had 2 weeks vacation from work & went on a Contiki 2 week Euro tour & it was awesome. Except in Rome our room & 3 other rooms got broken into while we slept & crooks took everyones cash, watches & cameras. Luckily i was able to get a cash advance on my credit card. Watch out for petty crimes in Italy.
 

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Originally posted by racerX
Except in Rome our room & 3 other rooms got broken into while we slept & crooks took everyones cash, watches & cameras. Luckily i was able to get a cash advance on my credit card. Watch out for petty crimes in Italy.
Were you at some extremely cheap place? I've slept in Italian hotels at least 300 nights in my life and nobody ever broke into my room. My father has probably spent 1000+ nights in hotels and never had problems.
 

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Originally posted by AC/DC
Where would be the best place to buy 3 round trip tix from San Francisco to London?
The internet. These days, the only people who need a travel agent are those who are technologically-impaired (old people).

How would you go about researching prices?
By visiting websites offering airfare. I've been to Europe solo half a dozen times, and the Middle East three times. Each trip I take, I book over the internet. Here's the best place to start:

http://www.kayak.com

If you guys know anything or have any pointer,s let me know.
Okay... why are you going to start off in the UK when your plan is to tour Europe for a month? Having been to Britain twice, I'll let you in on a secret... it's an island. Once you get there, expect to pay around 60 quid (almost 110 dollars) for a tiny hotel room... plus transportation to get to the hotel. Then you're going to have to either book a plane ticket to get off the island and make your way into Europe, or you'll have to hop on a ferry, which will cost around 80-100 quid. If it were me going instead of you, I'd start on the European continent so I wouldn't have to spend even more money unnecessarily in order to make it there.

If you really just want to go to England, save it for last. It's a bad idea to start a trip in the most expensive place. Oh yeah, and don't book your tickets half a year ahead of time. You'll save a lot of money by waiting until the date draws closer... just keep checking internet sites once a week and bide your time until you see a fare you can't pass up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've found German girls to be the most fun if you can handle constant sarcasm. They can be very hot, but even the less attractive ones have a good time sense of humor. Highly recommend them.
 

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French women are far and away the hottest women on the planet. seanchai does not know what he is talking about. I recommend Nice. If it were me going instead of you, I would fly into Paris, take a train to Nice, and spend a month there. In fact, it will be me doing that this summer, but from the end of July to whenever I run out of money. God bless youth.
 

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Wtf people...girls from western Europe are fat and ugly, because they have a lot of money and eat to much.

I've found German girls to be the most fun if you can handle constant sarcasm. They can be very hot, but even the less attractive ones have a good time sense of humor. Highly recommend them.
This is the stupidest thing I have heard.

I lived in Germany for a few months and the girls there are on the bottom of my list. All are fat blond with blue eyes and ugly. I speak German and they aren't funny and I am sure that in English they are even less funnier than you think.

Best looking woman are in Poland and Czech.
Eastern Europe girls are hot. You cant deny that.

If you guys know anything or have any pointer,s let me know.
If you plan to visit things like the Eiffel Tower you should now that they are highly visited. So you could wait a few hours to take a tour or in this case get in the tower.

Prices in the west part of Europe are way higher then in east Europe.

English is known in places were tourist go so you wont have a problem with that. (except for some patriot bastards that refuse to talk in some other language than theyre own)

I hope I will get to Amsterdam this summer or to Prague.
 

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Originally posted by Taviii
I lived in Germany for a few months and the girls there are on the bottom of my list. All are fat blond with blue eyes and ugly. I speak German and they aren't funny and I am sure that in English they are even less funnier than you think.
You've got a point. seanchai should take into account that he is tall, broad-shouldered, blue-eyed, and blond. He is a German superman. They're not nice to you because you are not a German superman.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I feel there are beautiful women all over Europe.

I spent a couple of weeks in Romania and I don't recall seeing any overweight women. The women there were very friendly too.

I've been to Germany several times and although there are some fine women there, I didn't like attitude I encountered. Seanchai is right about the constant sarcasm. And Taviii is right that it isn't funny. Plus, that B.S. gets old after a while. It could be veiwed as them testing you, but I found they take it a bit too far.

I'm definitely going to check out France soon. I love hearing a woman speak french or english with a french accent.
 
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