"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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saber

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Me and a friend have decided to drop everything and travel.

We leave for hawaii on the first of april. After the summer is over probably europe...hard to say.

We are hurrying to get the details together like how we will aquire money and lodging but it all seems very possible.

Anyone who is looking to travel with us...this is an open invitation.

no moochers tho

any takers???
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sandow

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i did that last year in europe. prepare for the best time of ur life.
 

Microphone Fiend

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im a couple years behind you guys but I am going to do the same once I acquire the funds. Im gonna go for the prototypical Eurotrip with my best buds and then I am just going to live in random places throughout my life til I hit the time I want to settle down for good.

How long are you going to stay in each place saber?
 

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Id be in, if only i had the money and wasnt in school right now...i plan to do a euro trip solo in the summer though...should be a lot of fun! Its good to meet people of the same interest though, having friends like that would be awesome man. Remember to always have fun, make new friends from all over the world, take a lot of pictures, and if you can, write a journal of your experiences so you can remember them always. ;) - Ken785
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Im gonna do that as soon as i finish high school... lol im hitting hawaii first too. .im guessing you guys surf? cuz its surf paradise there lol
 

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Awesome dude, I am traveling in China right now. Best thing you can do. I have some great stories that I thought would never happen to me.
 

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I'm planning something very similar, deciding between Europe and SE Asia... I've been saving for just under a year, got 10k for my trip and I plan to leave in November for around 6 months. I personally think dropping everything and traveling is one of the best things you can do before settling down... after all, you can drive a nice car, hone your DJ skills, buy a house all when your 40 and 50. But you can only travel this way while you're young with no responsibilities... that's my 2 cents.

Hope you guys have the time of your life, I'm looking for suggestions on how to make money while traveling so I don't have to use up my savings... any ideas aside from teaching english, as I do not have a degree?
 

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I agree travel while young because when you have all those house & car loans and kids a 3 month trip or more won't be nearly as easy to pull off.

I wouldn't suggest Europe though, kind of expensive, and if you're from the US the exchange rate sucks in much of Europe now. For what you will spend to stay in cruddy hostels and eat peanute butter sandwhichs in Europe, you could be living well in many other parts of the world, but since you guys can afford europa more power to you =)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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thx for the support...we are both pretty excited.

As far as money goes I have a decent amount saved up but hopefully won't spend too much.
I have always been able to make money whith craigslist and am working on how to use th internet even more.

For example I have already found several jobs in hawaii...the ironic part is I will probably negotiate a better salary than the job I just quit. lol

I will continue to sarge and hopefully have some nice LR for you guys.
 

saber

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lol im going alone now...

like a jackass i sorta fooled around with his sorta x gf

its all shades of gray but im only human god dammit

sigh...
 

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Im only 17 now, but I really want to go on a trip like this.

Someday, I'm just going to pack up and leave. I just need to stay committed to this goal or 'someday' may never come.

How do you bring your money with you on a trip like this? Cash? ATM Card?
 

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Just to give you an idea, i spent 6 weeks in europe last year (France, Netherlands, Spain, Italy, Greece) and I spent around $8,000. It was worth every penny though. Ok maybe not every penny.

You should always use cash, everytime you use your card, whether it be restaurant or ATM, your bank will charge you a fee. And trust me it adds up. They have currency exchanges in main cities, exchange your money there. But yeah, Europe is damn expensive. With the exception of Greece.

I did a report on these cities, you can search it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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