"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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saber

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Me and a friend have decided to drop everything and travel.

We leave for hawaii on the first of april. After the summer is over probably europe...hard to say.

We are hurrying to get the details together like how we will aquire money and lodging but it all seems very possible.

Anyone who is looking to travel with us...this is an open invitation.

no moochers tho

any takers???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sandow

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i did that last year in europe. prepare for the best time of ur life.
 

Microphone Fiend

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im a couple years behind you guys but I am going to do the same once I acquire the funds. Im gonna go for the prototypical Eurotrip with my best buds and then I am just going to live in random places throughout my life til I hit the time I want to settle down for good.

How long are you going to stay in each place saber?
 

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Id be in, if only i had the money and wasnt in school right now...i plan to do a euro trip solo in the summer though...should be a lot of fun! Its good to meet people of the same interest though, having friends like that would be awesome man. Remember to always have fun, make new friends from all over the world, take a lot of pictures, and if you can, write a journal of your experiences so you can remember them always. ;) - Ken785
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Im gonna do that as soon as i finish high school... lol im hitting hawaii first too. .im guessing you guys surf? cuz its surf paradise there lol
 

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Awesome dude, I am traveling in China right now. Best thing you can do. I have some great stories that I thought would never happen to me.
 

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I'm planning something very similar, deciding between Europe and SE Asia... I've been saving for just under a year, got 10k for my trip and I plan to leave in November for around 6 months. I personally think dropping everything and traveling is one of the best things you can do before settling down... after all, you can drive a nice car, hone your DJ skills, buy a house all when your 40 and 50. But you can only travel this way while you're young with no responsibilities... that's my 2 cents.

Hope you guys have the time of your life, I'm looking for suggestions on how to make money while traveling so I don't have to use up my savings... any ideas aside from teaching english, as I do not have a degree?
 

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I agree travel while young because when you have all those house & car loans and kids a 3 month trip or more won't be nearly as easy to pull off.

I wouldn't suggest Europe though, kind of expensive, and if you're from the US the exchange rate sucks in much of Europe now. For what you will spend to stay in cruddy hostels and eat peanute butter sandwhichs in Europe, you could be living well in many other parts of the world, but since you guys can afford europa more power to you =)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thx for the support...we are both pretty excited.

As far as money goes I have a decent amount saved up but hopefully won't spend too much.
I have always been able to make money whith craigslist and am working on how to use th internet even more.

For example I have already found several jobs in hawaii...the ironic part is I will probably negotiate a better salary than the job I just quit. lol

I will continue to sarge and hopefully have some nice LR for you guys.
 

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lol im going alone now...

like a jackass i sorta fooled around with his sorta x gf

its all shades of gray but im only human god dammit

sigh...
 

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Im only 17 now, but I really want to go on a trip like this.

Someday, I'm just going to pack up and leave. I just need to stay committed to this goal or 'someday' may never come.

How do you bring your money with you on a trip like this? Cash? ATM Card?
 

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Just to give you an idea, i spent 6 weeks in europe last year (France, Netherlands, Spain, Italy, Greece) and I spent around $8,000. It was worth every penny though. Ok maybe not every penny.

You should always use cash, everytime you use your card, whether it be restaurant or ATM, your bank will charge you a fee. And trust me it adds up. They have currency exchanges in main cities, exchange your money there. But yeah, Europe is damn expensive. With the exception of Greece.

I did a report on these cities, you can search it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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