"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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trashed girl's neighbor's backyard

foomee

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so my friend let me and my friends party at her house last night even tho she didn't want us there, she was being nice. and she lives on the second floor and has a balcony above someone's backyard. well last night a bunch of our friends were drunk and were throwing cigarette butts all down there instead of in the cigarette cup. so the lady downstairs gets mad today and this girl gets a warning/complaint from the tenants and now she's at her condo crying and is very angry. i tried going there to talk to her but she wouldn't talk to me or open the door. i was out there for 2 hours waiting and i even brought her some taco bell. i ended up leaving about 20mins ago and i don't know what to do now. i really like this girl and now she's probably pissed off at me. it's not entirely my fault, but still i feel at fault. i've texted and imed her telling her everything will be fine and we'll help them clean it up and nothing bad is gonna happen to you cos this'll never happen again. what else can i do?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonDan

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You should of brought her some Mcdonalds instead... MMM... Yum
 

DJVladdy

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Its not about u liking her or not its about acting like a prick.
What are you, 12?
 

Create Reality

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Lmao you brought her Taco Bell. Nothing says "Im Sorry" like a bean burrito.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJDamage

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She ain't your girl so why are you putting this much effort into her? everything you did from that point on reeks of insecurity and will have the opposite effect of her being attracted to you. You bought her a taco?? yeah I am sure a cheap excuse for a meal will smooth things over.:rolleyes:

She is not helpless, it was her apartment and her responsibility. If this is the way she choose to act by throwing a hissy fit and crying like a little girl then leave her be.
 
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