"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trashed girl's neighbor's backyard

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so my friend let me and my friends party at her house last night even tho she didn't want us there, she was being nice. and she lives on the second floor and has a balcony above someone's backyard. well last night a bunch of our friends were drunk and were throwing cigarette butts all down there instead of in the cigarette cup. so the lady downstairs gets mad today and this girl gets a warning/complaint from the tenants and now she's at her condo crying and is very angry. i tried going there to talk to her but she wouldn't talk to me or open the door. i was out there for 2 hours waiting and i even brought her some taco bell. i ended up leaving about 20mins ago and i don't know what to do now. i really like this girl and now she's probably pissed off at me. it's not entirely my fault, but still i feel at fault. i've texted and imed her telling her everything will be fine and we'll help them clean it up and nothing bad is gonna happen to you cos this'll never happen again. what else can i do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You should of brought her some Mcdonalds instead... MMM... Yum
 
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Its not about u liking her or not its about acting like a prick.
What are you, 12?
 
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Lmao you brought her Taco Bell. Nothing says "Im Sorry" like a bean burrito.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She ain't your girl so why are you putting this much effort into her? everything you did from that point on reeks of insecurity and will have the opposite effect of her being attracted to you. You bought her a taco?? yeah I am sure a cheap excuse for a meal will smooth things over.:rolleyes:

She is not helpless, it was her apartment and her responsibility. If this is the way she choose to act by throwing a hissy fit and crying like a little girl then leave her be.
 
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