"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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aussiegoat55

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I know I am overanaylzing here, but its for self improvement (what to stop/keep doing) so I just want some help translating what these expressions mean.

"You're assertive",

"You're sweet",

"You're considerate",

"You're so intense",

"You're so calm",

"Ive never met any one like you before",

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"You're assertive", - He's confident, sexy.

"You're sweet", - He's too kind to me, I'll milk that. (Stop being so kind, ya ponse.)

"You're considerate", - He really cares about me, I'll come to him with my problems. (Tease her more.)

"You're so intense", - He's so exciting to be around, I love him.

"You're so calm", - It seems nothing I do can make him mad, he's so much better than everyone else.

"Ive never met any one like you before", - He's so different, maybe he could be the ONE :D

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing? - He might not actually be using me for sex, He likes to cuddle! :D. Maybe he's gay... or maybe he's my soulmate.
 
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