"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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aussiegoat55

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I know I am overanaylzing here, but its for self improvement (what to stop/keep doing) so I just want some help translating what these expressions mean.

"You're assertive",

"You're sweet",

"You're considerate",

"You're so intense",

"You're so calm",

"Ive never met any one like you before",

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You're assertive", - He's confident, sexy.

"You're sweet", - He's too kind to me, I'll milk that. (Stop being so kind, ya ponse.)

"You're considerate", - He really cares about me, I'll come to him with my problems. (Tease her more.)

"You're so intense", - He's so exciting to be around, I love him.

"You're so calm", - It seems nothing I do can make him mad, he's so much better than everyone else.

"Ive never met any one like you before", - He's so different, maybe he could be the ONE :D

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing? - He might not actually be using me for sex, He likes to cuddle! :D. Maybe he's gay... or maybe he's my soulmate.
 
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