"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aussiegoat55

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I know I am overanaylzing here, but its for self improvement (what to stop/keep doing) so I just want some help translating what these expressions mean.

"You're assertive",

"You're sweet",

"You're considerate",

"You're so intense",

"You're so calm",

"Ive never met any one like you before",

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"You're assertive", - He's confident, sexy.

"You're sweet", - He's too kind to me, I'll milk that. (Stop being so kind, ya ponse.)

"You're considerate", - He really cares about me, I'll come to him with my problems. (Tease her more.)

"You're so intense", - He's so exciting to be around, I love him.

"You're so calm", - It seems nothing I do can make him mad, he's so much better than everyone else.

"Ive never met any one like you before", - He's so different, maybe he could be the ONE :D

"You're so affectionate, something most guys just dont get",...could either be really good thing or a really bad thing? - He might not actually be using me for sex, He likes to cuddle! :D. Maybe he's gay... or maybe he's my soulmate.
 
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