"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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******** translation?

Jizz

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Alright so i maybe reading too much into this but ill ask anyway

couple of things i wanna know aswell as translation

before this text i thought to myself (What a wondeful world haha no) that she saw me as a just friend(coz she has a bf)but does this text show shes thinking of us as a lil more as a possibility?

this is the text, basically i told her im coming to hers sunday to hang out, she said alright but i dunno what were gonna do so i said

"well we can watch a film in (name of place) then look round town, then go back to urs and ill beat you at tekken 2"

she replied "i wanna do that but i dont think (name of bf) would like it, and tbh if (name of bf) did that with another gal id hate it"

any ideas what she is saying? am i reading too much, is it just what shes saying?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Triple X

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OK here's my take on things:

Stop pursuing chicks with BFs.

'Nuff said.
 

NewMan

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no ******** here. Just a plain - I've got a BF and he would not appreciate me hanging with you.'
 

Triple X

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Let me also say that if I was that guy and I found out some other dude was texting my girl, asking to go to the cinema and back to her place... even though he knew she was with me.... I'd hunt him down... find him and smack the f***in sh*t out of him.

So, be careful man.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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You've been LJBFed, whay are you wasting time and effort on a dead end?

Spin more plates and pay attention to the ones that actually are interested in you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Probably havent given you enough backround info, might change your opinion on things

btw yes i know i shouldnt be texting a gal with a bf, but ohwell nevermind!

She got my number of a mutual gal friend of ours!

She texts me alot, shes very keen to hang out sunday, her bf knows im texting her and he isnt happy obviously, but and i must say this, she hasnt done anything wrong, theres not alot of flirting going on (shes flirtatous by nature, but i can tell shes trying not to be around me) her bf nearly broke up with her yesterday because she was texting me but yet she is still keen to hang out sunday!

She has also told me im really great, funny, cool and once again great to hang out with!

She told me tonight while i was hanging out with her that i should come round hers tonight but i couldnt because i had to work, she even said at one point after i said i doubt your bf would be happy about it, "he doesnt have to know, hes at band practice"
 

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Originally posted by Triple X
Let me also say that if I was that guy and I found out some other dude was texting my girl, asking to go to the cinema and back to her place... even though he knew she was with me.... I'd hunt him down... find him and smack the f***in sh*t out of him.

So, be careful man.
Don't sound so insecure. It isn't right for another guy to try to seduce your gf. But, no hunting.
 

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Don't actually pursue chicks with bfs. Tease and challenge them, mixing signals, but NEVER asking them out on anything that looks like a date. You spend very little energy while keeping your options open in the event of a breakup.
 

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Just use women with BFs for practice.

In this instance she just LBJF'd you. So feel free to keep texting her but your aren't getting any sex... if I put it that way do you understand what she is saying?
 
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