"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

******** translation?

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
Alright so i maybe reading too much into this but ill ask anyway

couple of things i wanna know aswell as translation

before this text i thought to myself (What a wondeful world haha no) that she saw me as a just friend(coz she has a bf)but does this text show shes thinking of us as a lil more as a possibility?

this is the text, basically i told her im coming to hers sunday to hang out, she said alright but i dunno what were gonna do so i said

"well we can watch a film in (name of place) then look round town, then go back to urs and ill beat you at tekken 2"

she replied "i wanna do that but i dont think (name of bf) would like it, and tbh if (name of bf) did that with another gal id hate it"

any ideas what she is saying? am i reading too much, is it just what shes saying?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Triple X

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2005
Messages
247
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
England
OK here's my take on things:

Stop pursuing chicks with BFs.

'Nuff said.
 

NewMan

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2003
Messages
2,406
Reaction score
16
Location
Los Angeles
no ******** here. Just a plain - I've got a BF and he would not appreciate me hanging with you.'
 

Triple X

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2005
Messages
247
Reaction score
0
Age
46
Location
England
Let me also say that if I was that guy and I found out some other dude was texting my girl, asking to go to the cinema and back to her place... even though he knew she was with me.... I'd hunt him down... find him and smack the f***in sh*t out of him.

So, be careful man.
 

Rollo Tomassi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2004
Messages
5,307
Reaction score
343
Age
58
Location
Nevada
You've been LJBFed, whay are you wasting time and effort on a dead end?

Spin more plates and pay attention to the ones that actually are interested in you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Jizz

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 18, 2005
Messages
153
Reaction score
0
Probably havent given you enough backround info, might change your opinion on things

btw yes i know i shouldnt be texting a gal with a bf, but ohwell nevermind!

She got my number of a mutual gal friend of ours!

She texts me alot, shes very keen to hang out sunday, her bf knows im texting her and he isnt happy obviously, but and i must say this, she hasnt done anything wrong, theres not alot of flirting going on (shes flirtatous by nature, but i can tell shes trying not to be around me) her bf nearly broke up with her yesterday because she was texting me but yet she is still keen to hang out sunday!

She has also told me im really great, funny, cool and once again great to hang out with!

She told me tonight while i was hanging out with her that i should come round hers tonight but i couldnt because i had to work, she even said at one point after i said i doubt your bf would be happy about it, "he doesnt have to know, hes at band practice"
 

DJ4Real

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2005
Messages
942
Reaction score
0
Originally posted by Triple X
Let me also say that if I was that guy and I found out some other dude was texting my girl, asking to go to the cinema and back to her place... even though he knew she was with me.... I'd hunt him down... find him and smack the f***in sh*t out of him.

So, be careful man.
Don't sound so insecure. It isn't right for another guy to try to seduce your gf. But, no hunting.
 

Marlimus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 5, 2005
Messages
486
Reaction score
13
Location
Northern New Jersey
Don't actually pursue chicks with bfs. Tease and challenge them, mixing signals, but NEVER asking them out on anything that looks like a date. You spend very little energy while keeping your options open in the event of a breakup.
 

flexion_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2003
Messages
1,617
Reaction score
10
Age
56
Just use women with BFs for practice.

In this instance she just LBJF'd you. So feel free to keep texting her but your aren't getting any sex... if I put it that way do you understand what she is saying?
 
Top