"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HalfAddict

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What the heck does it mean when a chick says I would get with you but im not ready but you are number one when I am ready -_-

sounds like some BS
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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jprjrjr

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Ask her who the fvck said she gets to decide?

It's kind of like a friend of mine once said. He was pretty overweight, and some chick told him if he lost 100 pounds, she'd have sex with him. He told her if he lost 100 pounds, he wouldn't want to have sex with her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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McKindley

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jpjrjr: you're friend is a ****ing MAN! Takes NO disrespect! I love it when big fat guys have some serious confidence. He knows that, though being 100 lbs overweight is not a healthy way to be, it doesn't make him anyone's *****.

If a girl tells you that she isn't ready, you're number one, blah blah blah, I'd just tell her "well, give me a call when you're ready. If I'm not dating anyone at the time then I might give you a shot."

And after that forget about her and work on some other girls. Don't wait around for her. Move on.
 

duttylove

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translation: when i get tired of horing all the guys the im currently horing i MIGHT fit you in some where if you prove worth of my hordom
 

tmpgstx

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It means there's another guy she has on her list .. do you honestly think she would tell you that you're number two or three? She knows you like her alot, just appeasing you.

It's basically the same as "I'm not ready for relationship right now" with a bit more onto the end of it. Don't waste your time.
 

belividere

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this is a sitation that sounds like she should have already been number 3 on your list before she said this. Do not put all your efforts into a single girl and expect a perfect outcome.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juanabbe

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Man that's some serious b*tch behaviour on her part. Who the f*ck does this broad think she is?

You should LJBF this girl immediately.
 
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