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[Mike32ct]

Hey guys.

I met this chick online from Match. We've emailed and then texted a bit. She seems quite interested. She texted me the following tonight:

MatchChick: "So this is gonna sound weird... It says on your match page you are not looking for anything serious. This true? I'm in a weird situation and was looking for a possible distraction. r u up 4 meeting sometime?

Mike: Yes and yes.

MatchChick: Cool... when r u free to meet?

Anyway, we're gonna meet up for a drink Thursday. I was planning on meeting her anyway.

So she seems fine with the "nothing serious" thing. She's 31 by the way.

Could you guys translate the , "I'm in a weird situation and was looking for a possible distraction" piece?

I think I know what that means, but wanted some input and advice.

I don't do a lot of online game, so it's not my expertise.

Thanks.

 

[wait_out]

Married? Just sensitive about wanting casual sex? Probably too soon to tell IMO

 

[Mike32ct]

Her ad says "Never married" but you never know.

 

[808]

I'm gonna have to go with married/'in a relationship,' too. Possible low interest for someone else?

It could be something less than that; either way, I'd roll with it 'til I know for sure.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

Probably in a relationship without sex, or in a fight with her current partner / about to leave him and needs to get off?

Seems like a sticky situation. Usually when a chick wants NSA sex, it is.

.. Or maybe her weird situation is that you're not ****ing her brains out right that second. Lol.

 

[thekhris]

Whether she is married or have a boyfriend.. The sure thing is she is getting bored with some one or having problem with some one and she wants to unwind or get away together with you.

Now your job is to make her forget that and give her a non stressful fun day. Make her feel safe but do flirt and do some kino. But dont show any sexual intentions unless she is the 1st one who flash it.

 

[3countriesPlan]

Shes down to f probably, of course it could just be a internet flaker h0 getting off on the attention, you'll know after you meet.

 

[DonGorgon]

She is a ho that has a BF who she wants to cheat on with you and many other guys..

you need to F her very very well and try to make her a F buddy and nothing more..

 

[Iceberg]

Yes this is a confusing one.

You should probably just give me her number and let me evaluate her in person.

 

[Mike32ct]

Thanks everybody. I first suggested a bar at a town next to hers. She counter-offered with a bar in a town next to mine.

If I can F-close this chick, maybe I'll just get a hotel room. She lives in a two-family house with her sister so we can't go back to her place. Plus if she is dating someone, I'd rather not show her where I live.

Should I just kino and fool around a bit on date one and try to close on date two?

Or just try for a full close on date 1?

I've done ONS from bars, but not yet from online. Although from what I read they aren't uncommon.

 

[Mike32ct]

Thanks. I'll post an update after.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Hey Mike,

Good work. Really looking forward to the update. By the way Vegas all worked out beautifully - your tips helped a lot. I'll PM you.

Espi - that story about screwing the girl in her 5-series is legendary!

 

[Mike32ct]

The online chick flaked. I got these texts a few hours before our date...

"Hey im sorry I had a change in heart about meeting up..im looking for something a lil more serious than I think u r..."

"Sorry"

 

[Mike32ct]

Exactly. My guess is she really was taken. She was probably feeling horny and considering cheating when she suggested the date. Then she either got cold feet about the cheating part or her bf gave it to her good the night before lol.

Regardless, I nexted her.

Thanks for everyone's input.

 

[Yo'Mama]

Sorry that didn't work out Mike. She sounds like an idiot. Onwards and upwards.

 

[women haze]

God women are........so trashy these days *sigh* what are you gonna do

 

[Yo'Mama]

I swear, these types of experience are almost the norm for me. Since I split up with my LTR (who I have to say I didn't appreciate enough at the time) 95% of the women I've met have just been trash. I would never have believed there were so many garbage women out there.

 

[Mike32ct]

Yeah it should be Flake.com lol. Before I came to SS, I spent years thinking there was something wrong with me. I'd get flaked on and blame myself. But hearing from other guys on here, I see how common it is. As such, I don't take it personally.

I've gotten cold feet about dates too, but I never flaked on anyone. Once I agree to something, I show up.

It's ok though. I have bigger fish to fry. Online is something I only dabble in these days. I prefer to meet women while traveling. That's more my specialty. I have a business trip coming up.

Thanks again guys.