Transition from conversation to kissing, help pls!

[Cassify]

Hey guys.
So , as the title suggests, i'm failing pretty hard on this point...the drop of the water was when i lost a girl that was - really - into me because i didn't know when/how to do it, that made me feel really bad.
So i came here to ask you guys, how you guys do this transition from a conversation to kissing!?

P.S: Assume that she is into you and enjoying the conversation.

 

[BeDJ]

LOB THAT FVCKING SH!T!

I've only had ONE rejection doing it out of the blue. Trust me. Just do it.

A kiss is not the end goal, it's the first step.

 

[Nickface]

Do you mean the specific moment? Or how to get to the situation? It sounds really cliche, but all I can say is when you both feel it, it kind of just happens. I feel the best approach is when your both nervous and you ask her if it's ok to kiss her. This should usually happen after you guys are holding hands or do other touching first.

You have to remember that both of you are in the same boat. Don't feel intimidated because your the one that has to make the move. And rarely is the situation perfect. It will be a sloppy/messy kiss but that kiss alone will drive your confidence ten fold

 

[Bible_Belt]

Touch her hair and look into her eyes. Any girl who will let you do that will kiss you. Older seduction material calls the move "the kiss test."

 

[Cassify]

Do you mean the specific moment? Or how to get to the situation?

well i'm pretty lost, so if anyone could give me a insight on the specific moment - if there's one - or how to get the girl into the mood to decrease my chances of getting rejected, that would be great.

 

[Mike32ct]

Touch her hair and look into her eyes. Any girl who will let you do that will kiss you. Older seduction material calls the move "the kiss test."

^This is gold. Field tested.

 

[IndeedSir]

I can second the hair touch/held eye contact. The best way to do it is to be spontaneous and make it fun. I find the more "serious" it is, the less success I've had. I normally try to do it after some fun and laughing. My last attempt was actually rejected but I feel like I nailed it anyway. Was some playful pushing and play fighting and she was laughing and smiling, I just hooked an arm around her waist and pulled her right into me and went for the kiss. That's worked for me on many occasions but I think this chick has another guy on the scene. Can't win em all!

EDIT: On reducing the chance of getting rejected: I don't think this is the correct mindset. Don't fear rejection. Rejection is just the answer you get. Always assume a woman is interested until she tells you otherwise. Remember, you're not trying to win the girl, she's trying to win you.

 

[noheroes]

If I'm sitting beside them, I just begin touching their hand, hair, neck, ears, etc. without breaking conversational stride. If she doesn't say anything about that, or (even better) responds by playing with my hands or something, then I either kiss her sitting down or say "stand up, I'm going to kiss you." I love it when the first kiss is standing up, so I can tower over her and hold her like a damn man.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Last time I kiss a girl was when I told her "we are going to my favourite spot to kiss you". We went to my favourite spot and I kissed her.

 

[nemz]

As soon as she touches you, it's on... little tap on the hand when talking, bumping into you when walking between venues etc, basically any contact initiated by her (excluding a full on slap of course) she's basically saying, if you're a f'kin man you'll know I want to be kissed!!!.. and possibly more.

Get in close (and you can pull this off early if there's attraction, don't wait till the end of the night) and just do it, like a man should.

No need to bother with all the caressing of hair shenanigans... she's just thinking at that point why hasn't this ***** kissed me yet??

Save that crap till ya going out...

Come on, does James Bond get all girly with his biatches hair?

Seriously )