Now is the right time, "now" is all we have innit. Background: i grew up as a shy kid, conservative, normally didn't go out, lacked social manuvers, low self esteem, crazy, kiddish, entertainingly funny.
Only untill last year or so when I discovered the self help community, I started to believe that I can change. Started reading books, listened and watched videos, analyzed stuff and tried to gather as much knowledge as I can. Always tried to learn the next big thing which could possibly change my life rather than taking action. So it has got me where i'm now.
Now: groomed myself, look good most of time, starting to love myself, have an attitude without ego, started interacting to girls in college and in general.
I'll stick to the following points:
1) don't care what others think
2) have fun and value each moment
3) talking to 2 new people everyday and engulf them in my happy state
4) visualize 15 minutes daily : confident, being sexual, treated like a vip, girls eager to talk to me, girls approach me, girls wanna **** me, i'm naked around girls and calm and relaxed in social situations. Also being the topper in my college
5) studying, following the time table.
6) Genuinely listen to what people have to say.
7) Speak louder and clearer and express in less words if possible
8) going for what I want.
9) Not taking **** nor giving or speaking ****
10) kino as quick
11) smiling only to approve and having a bright glowing face all the time.
12) head up, shoulders back, chest out a bit, walk slowly, relaxed and with intent.
13) being positive and thinking positive thoughts
14) NO watching porn and masturbating
15) Action action action.
Feel free to share your advices and opinions.
Only untill last year or so when I discovered the self help community, I started to believe that I can change. Started reading books, listened and watched videos, analyzed stuff and tried to gather as much knowledge as I can. Always tried to learn the next big thing which could possibly change my life rather than taking action. So it has got me where i'm now.
Now: groomed myself, look good most of time, starting to love myself, have an attitude without ego, started interacting to girls in college and in general.
I'll stick to the following points:
1) don't care what others think
2) have fun and value each moment
3) talking to 2 new people everyday and engulf them in my happy state
4) visualize 15 minutes daily : confident, being sexual, treated like a vip, girls eager to talk to me, girls approach me, girls wanna **** me, i'm naked around girls and calm and relaxed in social situations. Also being the topper in my college
5) studying, following the time table.
6) Genuinely listen to what people have to say.
7) Speak louder and clearer and express in less words if possible
8) going for what I want.
9) Not taking **** nor giving or speaking ****
10) kino as quick
11) smiling only to approve and having a bright glowing face all the time.
12) head up, shoulders back, chest out a bit, walk slowly, relaxed and with intent.
13) being positive and thinking positive thoughts
14) NO watching porn and masturbating
15) Action action action.
Feel free to share your advices and opinions.