Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Traits that make women feel good around you

Rint

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This is a connecting thread to one i did before. But i want to know traits that make women feel good around you besides being funny.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Of course confidence and making decisions (leading)
Sense of safety
More physically... looking them in the eyes and not being afraid of them like some guys
And even if your an ugly ****, a good sense of fashion and a respect for yourself.
 

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Hoogie said:
Of course confidence and making decisions (leading)
Sense of safety
More physically... looking them in the eyes and not being afraid of them like some guys
And even if your an ugly ****, a good sense of fashion and a respect for yourself.
Dress isn't as important as many of the dudes who post on here think, take a dude like, Bruce Springsteen, for example, he wears torn denims, some hot babes love that, it is about having charisma or the X Factor as many call it these days, if you have that nothing else matters. :yes:
 

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PigAdlemPimp said:
Dress isn't as important as many of the dudes who post on here think, take a dude like, Bruce Springsteen, for example, he wears torn denims, some hot babes love that, it is about having charisma or the X Factor as many call it these days, if you have that nothing else matters. :yes:

Are you kidding me? So you're telling me that your clothing is judged as unattractive when it has a vintage look to it? have you been under a rock for the past decade? Also, even if spring were to wear a paper bag he would still get chicks, he's a famous musician.

Many things play into it, charisma is one huge one, but looks are also important too...
 

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Well....clothes is always a gray area because there are always personal preferences/styles and taste that are not always 100% uniform. But to put it this way, you won't get noticed for your lain white t-shirts and plain jeans.

As someone said decision-making/leading is a definetely plus. I would say it is a must have. There is nothing more unattractive about a man who goes out with a girl and they exchange the "so what do you want to do?".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SuSHI said:
Are you kidding me? So you're telling me that your clothing is judged as unattractive when it has a vintage look to it? have you been under a rock for the past decade? Also, even if spring were to wear a paper bag he would still get chicks, he's a famous musician.

Many things play into it, charisma is one huge one, but looks are also important too...
I am just saying that you do not need to be dressed up in an expensive suit to pull the hottest babes, if you have the X Factor, then torn denims will do the job. :cool:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Rint said:
This is a connecting thread to one i did before. But i want to know traits that make women feel good around you besides being funny.
It depends on the woman you're with, it's not cookie cutter.
 

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Having lots of cash and being a pvssy at the same time.

Can't say no as she empties out your pockets. And we all know how chicks love money.


This is a very good trait to have that women literally go crazy for. This is what you're looking for... right?
Molding yourself to please a woman/women?
 

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You can have any kind of look. It's just got to be one that works for you. I got the attention of quite a few hb10s during my pretty boy / AFC days despite not looking anything like the type of guys these girls usually dated. I had long hair and wore t-shirts and jeans all the time. And these were girls that typically would date Abercrombie and Fitch type guys. I just had no game, so I never had the courage to talk to them.

A specific look isn't important. Just have one that works. That's my problem right now. My hairline is ****, so I can't pull off my old image anymore. And I have a funny shaped head, so if I shave it I'm still screwed.
 

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TillTheEndOfTime said:
But to put it this way, you won't get noticed for your lain white t-shirts and plain jeans.
That all depends of who you are and what do you look like. If you are an average looking guy with an average build and a plain personality then yeah a plain white-t shirt and plain jeans will not help you. If you are however hitting the gym on a constant basis and as a result you are build, got a good haircut, walk around with confidence and have a great outgoing personality, then the plain white t shirt and jeans wouldn't really be an issue or hinder the attraction to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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