She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dress isn't as important as many of the dudes who post on here think, take a dude like, Bruce Springsteen, for example, he wears torn denims, some hot babes love that, it is about having charisma or the X Factor as many call it these days, if you have that nothing else matters. :yes:Hoogie said:Of course confidence and making decisions (leading)
Sense of safety
More physically... looking them in the eyes and not being afraid of them like some guys
And even if your an ugly ****, a good sense of fashion and a respect for yourself.
PigAdlemPimp said:Dress isn't as important as many of the dudes who post on here think, take a dude like, Bruce Springsteen, for example, he wears torn denims, some hot babes love that, it is about having charisma or the X Factor as many call it these days, if you have that nothing else matters. :yes:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I am just saying that you do not need to be dressed up in an expensive suit to pull the hottest babes, if you have the X Factor, then torn denims will do the job.SuSHI said:Are you kidding me? So you're telling me that your clothing is judged as unattractive when it has a vintage look to it? have you been under a rock for the past decade? Also, even if spring were to wear a paper bag he would still get chicks, he's a famous musician.
Many things play into it, charisma is one huge one, but looks are also important too...
It depends on the woman you're with, it's not cookie cutter.Rint said:This is a connecting thread to one i did before. But i want to know traits that make women feel good around you besides being funny.
That all depends of who you are and what do you look like. If you are an average looking guy with an average build and a plain personality then yeah a plain white-t shirt and plain jeans will not help you. If you are however hitting the gym on a constant basis and as a result you are build, got a good haircut, walk around with confidence and have a great outgoing personality, then the plain white t shirt and jeans wouldn't really be an issue or hinder the attraction to you.TillTheEndOfTime said:But to put it this way, you won't get noticed for your lain white t-shirts and plain jeans.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.