"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Demodulate

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I am by know means a master of this stuff yet.. but I am starting to see all the trainwrecks as they happen.

Case in point, an ex of mine was seeing some new guy.. she was super into him a few weeks ago.. Then he started in with the I love you's and want to be with you.. and it progressed to him giving her ultimatums, calling her a drunk and party animal, getting super jealous when she hung out with other friends, and all your basic BS AFC ****.. shes done with it already.. less then a month in total.

its almost comical now.

Another girl I know just broke up with her LTR, and he is constantly trying to start **** with her. He was bent out of shape today after someone told him they where glad they broke up. He called the ex up and yeld at her because someone else said they where happy they broke up.



I look around and I am starting to see all the mistakes men are making in their relationships. The games the woman are playing with the men. so on and so forth.. Im no pro yet, but recognizing the problems is probably a big step towards it.


so lets hear some of the trainwrecks youve watched happen or have been part of
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warrior74

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i'd rather not. I see them too much every damn day. Rather focus on some postivity over negativity. Don't want to put that my brain or body by dwelling on other peoples misfortunes.

I had a great date friday night. Made out with a 23 year old. Good times.
 
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BadsnakeUK

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30 Year old friend of mine engaged to a FUG (his second ever gf) after 9 months. His excuse? "Now I've hit 30 my life's over - I just want to find the right woman and settle down with her."
 
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Brandonc662

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There is a huge difference in spotting where other people are making their mistakes and when you are doing it when you are in a relationship. It means nothing to see when other people are doing the wrong thing because there are no emotions clouding your judgment. When you know you are good is when you can see past your ego and emotions and see whats going on in a relationship you are involved in.
 
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