"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Demodulate

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I am by know means a master of this stuff yet.. but I am starting to see all the trainwrecks as they happen.

Case in point, an ex of mine was seeing some new guy.. she was super into him a few weeks ago.. Then he started in with the I love you's and want to be with you.. and it progressed to him giving her ultimatums, calling her a drunk and party animal, getting super jealous when she hung out with other friends, and all your basic BS AFC ****.. shes done with it already.. less then a month in total.

its almost comical now.

Another girl I know just broke up with her LTR, and he is constantly trying to start **** with her. He was bent out of shape today after someone told him they where glad they broke up. He called the ex up and yeld at her because someone else said they where happy they broke up.



I look around and I am starting to see all the mistakes men are making in their relationships. The games the woman are playing with the men. so on and so forth.. Im no pro yet, but recognizing the problems is probably a big step towards it.


so lets hear some of the trainwrecks youve watched happen or have been part of
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warrior74

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i'd rather not. I see them too much every damn day. Rather focus on some postivity over negativity. Don't want to put that my brain or body by dwelling on other peoples misfortunes.

I had a great date friday night. Made out with a 23 year old. Good times.
 
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BadsnakeUK

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30 Year old friend of mine engaged to a FUG (his second ever gf) after 9 months. His excuse? "Now I've hit 30 my life's over - I just want to find the right woman and settle down with her."
 
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Brandonc662

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There is a huge difference in spotting where other people are making their mistakes and when you are doing it when you are in a relationship. It means nothing to see when other people are doing the wrong thing because there are no emotions clouding your judgment. When you know you are good is when you can see past your ego and emotions and see whats going on in a relationship you are involved in.
 
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