"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Training Women?!

baller

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Any Luck concerning this topic?

I feel that my girlfriend is like a puppy or a baby that i constantly train.
No idea by which pack of wolves she has been growing up with, but training that chick is sometimes interesting and at times really frustrating.
We have been dating for 6 months now, and in the beginning she was shy...now she really hatched through her shell.

Comes from this conservative family; however, she s somewhat a rebel in a small scale.

I just don’t know if I should continue to coach this chick or not to waste my time.


So far she has A in: cooking, started to dress awesome (when we go out a perfect 9-10…other times about a 4-6), caring

Borderline B: working out, sex

F: Disorganization, procrastination, and being punctual.:nono:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I dont really get where you're going with this.

What do you want her to improve on?


Foamy
 

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foamy said:
I dont really get where you're going with this.

What do you want her to improve on?


Foamy
F: Disorganization, procrastination, and being punctual.:trouble:
and yeah, chick absolutely doesn't know how to give good head
 

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I found a long time ago that when I tried to train a girl they would only learn the lesson after I dumped her.

Made me a bit bitter to catch up with an ex to discover her doing all the things for her new man that I wanted her to do for me.

JJ
 

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hmm interesting.
I have discovered how to take care of that.
You have to have an appearance that you are talking to many women at the same time, and she is not the only girl in your life...Make it seem that another, even better one can always take her spot. Also if you don't see her everyday, makes her compete over you. Gotta have that tension..it gets interesting and challenging.
..but i'm running out of ideas////....mayb i should get a book how to train puppies
or


Ps. i know it is kinda crude but guys, you know that women manipulate us every second. typical: "Oh its cold in here..." -you: "okay im going to close the window"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh yeah, the chick gave me two dinner trays on my bday (true i didnt have those lol)... WTF you might say...so did i.

i guess she was planning for her own messy ass to eat on those trays when she comes over

She s getting Dish Sponges tomorrow (6 months anniversary)
 

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my mom always mails me candy.

she won't get it through her head that i eat healthily.

it's really piling up in my drawer.

anybody want to come over and have some candy?
 

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mrRuckus said:
my mom always mails me candy.

she won't get it through her head that i eat healthily.

it's really piling up in my drawer.

anybody want to come over and have some candy?
you trying to say something, dont be a puss and say it:rolleyes:
 
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