"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Training at night/before sleep?

Oscar Wilde

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Hey guys,

I was just wondering about this subject. I normally train at lunchtime (bless flexitime), but might change to this for a while for miscellaneous reasons.

Do many people here train shortly before sleeping? What are the ramifications?

Osc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hardwork

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I run right before going to bed, myself. Peaceful, testosterone-filled dreams ensue.

The rub, though, is that you have to "run-run": you can't just "jog"; I'm talkin', "Sprint uphill until you feel like dying, then go run at 6-minute mile pace to the next hill so you can spring up it backwards, then run some more, following that by more running"-type running. ("RUNNING", if you will.) Kill your body until it begs for sleep :)
 

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I normally just do sprints until I pass out, wherever it be... Then the next morning I'll wake up, sometimes on a track, sidewalk or freeway and then walk home.
 

Elimidate

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Good question,

I'm not a morning person at all and over the last year and a half, I've been training at around 10pm.

I've heard it's better to train in the AM before breakfest and after a snack since your body is in a different state.

However, I've seen great gains so far and it works for me!


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I used to train in the evening. It is not the best time to train because after working out you won't get any sleep to soon. And sleep is very important for progress.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I love to do exercise before sleep becasue then i am extremly tired and then go right to sleep. Exercise right before i go to med makes me have a good nights rest.:D
 

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While I don't think it's great to exercise before bed since it takes some time for the body to wind down, it's better than no exercise at all.

If it's the only time you can fit into your schedule, then do it.
 
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