"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Training at night/before sleep?

Oscar Wilde

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Hey guys,

I was just wondering about this subject. I normally train at lunchtime (bless flexitime), but might change to this for a while for miscellaneous reasons.

Do many people here train shortly before sleeping? What are the ramifications?

Osc.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I run right before going to bed, myself. Peaceful, testosterone-filled dreams ensue.

The rub, though, is that you have to "run-run": you can't just "jog"; I'm talkin', "Sprint uphill until you feel like dying, then go run at 6-minute mile pace to the next hill so you can spring up it backwards, then run some more, following that by more running"-type running. ("RUNNING", if you will.) Kill your body until it begs for sleep :)
 

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I normally just do sprints until I pass out, wherever it be... Then the next morning I'll wake up, sometimes on a track, sidewalk or freeway and then walk home.
 

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Good question,

I'm not a morning person at all and over the last year and a half, I've been training at around 10pm.

I've heard it's better to train in the AM before breakfest and after a snack since your body is in a different state.

However, I've seen great gains so far and it works for me!


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I used to train in the evening. It is not the best time to train because after working out you won't get any sleep to soon. And sleep is very important for progress.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I love to do exercise before sleep becasue then i am extremly tired and then go right to sleep. Exercise right before i go to med makes me have a good nights rest.:D
 

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While I don't think it's great to exercise before bed since it takes some time for the body to wind down, it's better than no exercise at all.

If it's the only time you can fit into your schedule, then do it.
 
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