"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Trainer at gym, lol

Numnut

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So at my gym i talk to one of the women trainers often. I decide to ask her out. She reply's with, " I'm busy with work right now with work and I''m pretty busy with my son. but, maybe later."

Lol, that went well. I know i shouldn't be trying to p/u the hired guns but just couldn't help myself.


numnut
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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flashpoint

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she has no man and doesnt beat around the bush about her son. show some interest in her son, in her life and she should be more welcoming. right now it seems like you are just after her arse and obviously she isnt interested in that at this point in her life. something like that prolly got her the child in the first place.
 

foreverAFC

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at least you tried.
 

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She is gorgeous + me 5'10" 290 = Fail


I know looks don't me everything, but they mean something!!
 

The Gambler

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Right now, you've got 2 posts here. You're gonna be a new man by the time you reach 200.

Welcome! Let's get started!

The Gambler
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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muscleman

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At least you tried, that's a good thing. Now, work on losing that weight. You need to have as much if not more of what you seek in others in yourself. If she's in great shape and in the fitness industry, you can be she'd want her dude to be in at least decent shape as well. So shape up, and welcome.
 
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