"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trainer at gym, lol

Numnut

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So at my gym i talk to one of the women trainers often. I decide to ask her out. She reply's with, " I'm busy with work right now with work and I''m pretty busy with my son. but, maybe later."

Lol, that went well. I know i shouldn't be trying to p/u the hired guns but just couldn't help myself.


numnut
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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flashpoint

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she has no man and doesnt beat around the bush about her son. show some interest in her son, in her life and she should be more welcoming. right now it seems like you are just after her arse and obviously she isnt interested in that at this point in her life. something like that prolly got her the child in the first place.
 

foreverAFC

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at least you tried.
 

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She is gorgeous + me 5'10" 290 = Fail


I know looks don't me everything, but they mean something!!
 

The Gambler

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Right now, you've got 2 posts here. You're gonna be a new man by the time you reach 200.

Welcome! Let's get started!

The Gambler
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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muscleman

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At least you tried, that's a good thing. Now, work on losing that weight. You need to have as much if not more of what you seek in others in yourself. If she's in great shape and in the fitness industry, you can be she'd want her dude to be in at least decent shape as well. So shape up, and welcome.
 
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