"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trainer at gym, lol

Numnut

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So at my gym i talk to one of the women trainers often. I decide to ask her out. She reply's with, " I'm busy with work right now with work and I''m pretty busy with my son. but, maybe later."

Lol, that went well. I know i shouldn't be trying to p/u the hired guns but just couldn't help myself.


numnut
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flashpoint

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she has no man and doesnt beat around the bush about her son. show some interest in her son, in her life and she should be more welcoming. right now it seems like you are just after her arse and obviously she isnt interested in that at this point in her life. something like that prolly got her the child in the first place.
 

foreverAFC

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at least you tried.
 

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She is gorgeous + me 5'10" 290 = Fail


I know looks don't me everything, but they mean something!!
 

The Gambler

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Right now, you've got 2 posts here. You're gonna be a new man by the time you reach 200.

Welcome! Let's get started!

The Gambler
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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muscleman

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At least you tried, that's a good thing. Now, work on losing that weight. You need to have as much if not more of what you seek in others in yourself. If she's in great shape and in the fitness industry, you can be she'd want her dude to be in at least decent shape as well. So shape up, and welcome.
 
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