"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Train your mind to not let oppurtunity pass you by...distort time for the better...

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I originally posted this technique in Tips but I figured itwas unusual enough to be placed in this forum, so here is the repeat...

Originally posted by Dreamer:

There is life changing power within everyone.

Everyone has the ability to create a good or bad mood just by thinking "what if".

Many people don't use "what if" to create a better future...that's because they fail to recreate their past...

Every now and again a reader on this board gets a moment of insight. The reader realizes what's needed to succeed with women and he wonders how his life would have been if he knew DJism when he was younger.

Sometimes a reader gets wrapped up with obtaining good results that he's reluctant to approach women due to thinking about the possibility of obtaining non-perfection

The two readers I just explained both utilized the powerful life changing technique of "what if". Using the technique of "what if" is the closest thing you can come to having a groundhogs day or 50 first date experience.

Now let me demonstrate the power of "what if"....

A. Think about a time you approached an attractive woman but you failed to have a succesful relationship with her. Visualise it.

B. Think about kissing an actress, singer or supermodel. Visualise it.

Now A is a memory and B is a fantasy.

Now what I want you to do is merge A and B...create a memtasy...

C. Think about "what if" you knew about Djism when you was younger.

If you want super confidence, practise C on a daily basis...memtasize...with your past memories, show no AFC behaviour, do keno, kill the desperation...distort time for the better...
When you memtasize, the present time seems fuller...you realize that there are multitudes of possible possitive outcomes...you don't take time for granted...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"It's never too late to have a happy childhood."


same concept, very nice ;)
 

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Interresting. I usually just make the best out of any situation so... I'm not down very often!
 
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