"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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GearsGod310

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Been having a lot of secs with one of my plates lately. Secs is kinda weird tho. I'm use to being the one doing all the work. But this is the first time I have ever had a girl wanting to do all the work. She usually just does cowgirl or reverse cowgirl she really knows her spots and just goes till she cvms.
She says doggy and missionary hurt her because she feels i'm poking her too deep. (I'm not all that impressive in size tbh average, never measured myself but 6in is pushing it). She always cvms multiple times though. I been thinking of switching it up trying something new. I have 0 experience with toys. Was thinking of buying a cheap vibrator that I can use on her cl1t while I hit it to make her feel more intense org4sm if thats even possible...

Anybody here got any experience on using toys with chicks? Would like some feedback. Will not buy one if its not worth it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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Been having a lot of secs with one of my plates lately. Secs is kinda weird tho. I'm use to being the one doing all the work. But this is the first time I have ever had a girl wanting to do all the work. She usually just does cowgirl or reverse cowgirl she really knows her spots and just goes till she cvms.
She says doggy and missionary hurt her because she feels i'm poking her too deep. (I'm not all that impressive in size tbh average, never measured myself but 6in is pushing it). She always cvms multiple times though. I been thinking of switching it up trying something new. I have 0 experience with toys. Was thinking of buying a cheap vibrator that I can use on her cl1t while I hit it to make her feel more intense org4sm if thats even possible...

Anybody here got any experience on using toys with chicks? Would like some feedback. Will not buy one if its not worth it
As long as her "taking control" isn't fvcking with your sexual pleasure and control, go with it. Some of us found when our girls take the "lead" too often in the bedroom it can fvck with your erections. So if that's the case you'd manage to switch the "lead" up.
 

Lookatu

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Been having a lot of secs with one of my plates lately. Secs is kinda weird tho. I'm use to being the one doing all the work. But this is the first time I have ever had a girl wanting to do all the work. She usually just does cowgirl or reverse cowgirl she really knows her spots and just goes till she cvms.
She says doggy and missionary hurt her because she feels i'm poking her too deep. (I'm not all that impressive in size tbh average, never measured myself but 6in is pushing it). She always cvms multiple times though. I been thinking of switching it up trying something new. I have 0 experience with toys. Was thinking of buying a cheap vibrator that I can use on her cl1t while I hit it to make her feel more intense org4sm if thats even possible...

Anybody here got any experience on using toys with chicks? Would like some feedback. Will not buy one if its not worth it
Don't fix what ain't broke bro. She's enjoying herself so why get a vibrator if you're not getting anything out of it? She's already being pleasured so why introduce something else? If she wants to experiment though, that might be different.

I've done and still do all sorts of things with my current plate including using all the toys she's collected so far. But that's because we are always pushing the envelopes in all ways. Just last weekend, we had sex in a tent on a beach with a bunch of families and kids running around everywhere. Still looking for a willing gal for a threesome for us but she's a bit picky so still looking... lol
 

In2theGame

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Been having a lot of secs with one of my plates lately. Secs is kinda weird tho. I'm use to being the one doing all the work. But this is the first time I have ever had a girl wanting to do all the work. She usually just does cowgirl or reverse cowgirl she really knows her spots and just goes till she cvms.
She says doggy and missionary hurt her because she feels i'm poking her too deep. (I'm not all that impressive in size tbh average, never measured myself but 6in is pushing it). She always cvms multiple times though. I been thinking of switching it up trying something new. I have 0 experience with toys. Was thinking of buying a cheap vibrator that I can use on her cl1t while I hit it to make her feel more intense org4sm if thats even possible...

Anybody here got any experience on using toys with chicks? Would like some feedback. Will not buy one if its not worth it
I've bought many different toys for girls i was hooking up with on the regular. Most guys think of buying a dildo or generic vibrator and those could work, depending on the girl but I started focusing on "specialized" toys to really stimulate the cl!toris. I found one that makes girls not only cvm but squirt hard. I've been splashed a few times but what i started thinking was, "Damn this fvcking toy is amazing!" lol. Once you know how to work it, forget about it. She's going to be cumming like a possessed demon and kicking everywhere and that's when you will have to use your strength to keep her legs open and keep it vibing on her cl!t until she cums so hard she starts tearing. Hit me up on the DM and i'll send you the amazon link of what i bought. Not sure i can post sex toy links here so i'll just send it to you there.

Source - My experience.
 

Hal9000

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There are a lot of ways you can go here based on the girl and just how freaky she may be. I've had a lot of success with butt plugs, restraints, blindfolds, collars, leashes, etc. I tend not to use garden variety dildos or vibrators unless I'm using them to tease. I rarely let a girl cvm from anything other than my mouth, cvck, or fingers. I do like getting them to the brink however then pulling them back. Tease and denial is something just about every woman enjoys. You've got to be totally in charge though. Sounds like your girl gets off pretty easily so I'd go that route. Making her wait will drive her insane.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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