“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Toxic Shame / Fear Of Intimacy / Love-shyness

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Anyone ever come across any of these terms before? I've read a lot on these 3 topics over the last week or 2 and it has really been a positive rewarding experience.

I can honestly say that the reason for all my girl problems in the past was because of these 3 things. And I'm willing to bet many AFC's also suffer from these issues. I wish I knew about toxic shame and love-shyness a long time ago, and I feel compelled to give everyone else the heads up. Become more aware, so to speak.

Check out these links to find out a bit more

http://joy2meu.com/Fear_of_Intimacy.html

Also check out the community of love-shy guys @
http://www.love-shy.com/index.php
Download the love-shy book. Its free. The parallels to AFC's are strong. The author of this book, treats love-shyness much like a psych disorder and his work is backed by research and many case studies of love-shy guys. He offers treatment and causes. Its quite interesting.

Having visited the love-shy yahoo group support forum I realise that they are no closer to a solution than we DJ's are. A lot of the guys over there are also heavily into seduction and frequent sites like sosuave. Could make for a good discussion...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Love shyness. Is that where you just get all sort of embarrassed to kiss your mother? Oh sorry, you're talking about the one which is intrinsically linked to your cvck. Fear of intimacy. Is that where you wear a double set of underwear in a maximum security prison in case another inmate gets too friendly? Oh, something different again.

Avoid cliches, pop psychology and such things at all costs. By all means tell your girlfriend that you don't have a handle on things, that you're in a mess and want mothering. That will be about as reassuring as having an airplane captain tell the passengers that he's lost power in all engines and he isn't sure what to do next.
 
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ElChoclo said:
That will be about as reassuring as having an airplane captain tell the passengers that he's lost power in all engines and he isn't sure what to do next.
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:crackup: Too funny! :crackup:

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