Towing my lines

[Skirmisher]

I'm new to Sosuave and I'd like to ask a question about a girl. This girl called me bestie a few times but I've decided to tow my lines and NEXT her. I cannot interpret how she acts, even if she tells me I am her bestie (we know each other for 5 months) she doesn't move away from me, stares me in lessons and wants to go out with me. I went out with her once and she wanted to meet up again. I think I am an orbit of hers but I'll not let this happen to me so I'll indicate my borders but I don't know how to do it like I want to tell her I want something different apart from what you want and I am not going to pursue what we have between us or just block her, unfollow her from instagram etc. even do nothing and do a no-contact?

 

[CoandaEffect]

I would not block her. That always comes across as butt hurt and does not look good. Stop thinking about her, do not approach her, if she speaks to you speak back. Just be cordial with her, nothing more.

In the mean time pursue other girls. If you are still in school it is the best time to just casually date. Don’t get hung up on any one girl.

 

[Scars]

Just realize you will probably never hookup but keep her as a "friend", she could become useful in the future. Aka social proof at bars and events etc.. if you feel like you're gonna be in your feels and can't control yourself around her, then yeah, next her.

 

[Poonstra]

Also her social circle might spawn opportunities for you, i.e. you can meet new girls through her. Like Scars said:

if you feel like you're gonna be in your feels and can't control yourself around her, then yeah, next her.