"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tourists at bars/clubs

mr. kennedy

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I live in a big city so there are a lot of tourists that visit, especially tourists that do road trips for the weekend. I've noticed the vast majority leave on Sunday afternoon to head back home.

I feel it's a double edged sword approaching or maintaining convos with tourists at clubs/bars. They are by far the most approachable girls. They aren't shy to approach guys themselves either. But I feel nothing comes out of it at the end, especially when they are a group of 3 or 4 girls. Case in point I met 5 groups of tourists last night (3 of them approached me) but there is always a friend or 2 in the group that interferes and wants to go somewhere else or your buddy doesn't fully connect with their bff killing the vibe you are currently having with the chick you're speaking. As they are from out of town, they do not split from the group.

Do any of you have success with tourists at clubs or is it better to just ignore them even though they are the most approachable women at the club. The most I ever got was make out sessions. Can't seem to get them away from their group to bring them home.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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