Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tough situation

5uave

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Alright guys, usually I know where I stand and what to do but this situation got me stumped. I met this girl that I don't mind getting with but of course there are other fishes in the sea but I just wanted to see if I could do it. She is a great girl, down to earth, mad cool and have a great persaonality. Her body is in good shape because she used to play sports and she goes clubbing all the time.

The first few times we hanged out was great because we got to know each other and we both founded out we are both really cool people, but we never past the friendship level bc she was still hung up with her ex. They are having an off and on thingy and I told her, that I can't wait for you to be single bc you would have a great time with me instead.

Now heres the part I Fuk'ed up on... We liked each other so much that we continued to hang out every other day for the past 3 weeks, but still havent done anything with each other. she told me she was done with her ex when I asked her a week ago but Her Interest level didnt seem as high as it was when we first met. I admit that this was my fault bc I let this happen. I shoulda been more busi, and told her that I couldnt come out and stuff.

Now I'm thinking about nexting her but I want the challenge to see if it is still possible to get with this girl after all this. All I want is some opinions and/or comments about this situation. I dont think it will work but she still show some signs that she wants to get with me but I could be reading it all wrong anywayz.

Comments?
Questions?
Suggestions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lhemmix

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your caught in her trap

You already thought that a relationship with this girl would'nt work, that means your already cancelling yourself out.

Have a more optimistic point of view.

Caution:
You may be caught in her trap. The girl might be doing a push-pull thing on you. She shows interest for you then disinterest the next time. It makes you obsessed with her huh?!
She just might be trying to grab your attention and nothing more.

Three weeks, you should have escalated the seduction every chance you have gotten.

It seems to me that you already know what to do ( being busy, et. al.). You only need to control yourself.
 
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