"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tough situation

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5uave

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Alright guys, usually I know where I stand and what to do but this situation got me stumped. I met this girl that I don't mind getting with but of course there are other fishes in the sea but I just wanted to see if I could do it. She is a great girl, down to earth, mad cool and have a great persaonality. Her body is in good shape because she used to play sports and she goes clubbing all the time.

The first few times we hanged out was great because we got to know each other and we both founded out we are both really cool people, but we never past the friendship level bc she was still hung up with her ex. They are having an off and on thingy and I told her, that I can't wait for you to be single bc you would have a great time with me instead.

Now heres the part I Fuk'ed up on... We liked each other so much that we continued to hang out every other day for the past 3 weeks, but still havent done anything with each other. she told me she was done with her ex when I asked her a week ago but Her Interest level didnt seem as high as it was when we first met. I admit that this was my fault bc I let this happen. I shoulda been more busi, and told her that I couldnt come out and stuff.

Now I'm thinking about nexting her but I want the challenge to see if it is still possible to get with this girl after all this. All I want is some opinions and/or comments about this situation. I dont think it will work but she still show some signs that she wants to get with me but I could be reading it all wrong anywayz.

Comments?
Questions?
Suggestions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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your caught in her trap

You already thought that a relationship with this girl would'nt work, that means your already cancelling yourself out.

Have a more optimistic point of view.

Caution:
You may be caught in her trap. The girl might be doing a push-pull thing on you. She shows interest for you then disinterest the next time. It makes you obsessed with her huh?!
She just might be trying to grab your attention and nothing more.

Three weeks, you should have escalated the seduction every chance you have gotten.

It seems to me that you already know what to do ( being busy, et. al.). You only need to control yourself.
 
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