"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'm in a tough situation, there is this girl that i work with that i would like to ask out. seems normal so far, well the problem is that i am a manager at mcdoands and technicaly i am her boss, but at work i don't seem like a manager at all, and i am only 19 so i don't see it that bad. another twist is that she is 16, three year younger then me. What do you think i should do? and if there is anything else that you want to know about this situation just tell ask.

Andy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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very simple
go make a conversation with her and ask her out, u don't need to think about anything else.
nothing wrong with it and don't be doubtin anythin about it
 
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Plenty of other fish in the sea... Your age.

But I guess the world needs people like you. Since I'm getting the 18 year olds, It's only fair that you compensate on the 16 year olds.
 
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What are you? crazy?

You know what sh!t that could cause if she said no?

Can you say sexual harrasment? FIND SOMEONE ELSE.
 
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Do not date someone working under. It is a very very bad idea. The fact that you are able to give her orders at work throws off the relationship completely. Trust me, it won't work, find someone else.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by LikRetsam
Plenty of other fish in the sea... Your age.

But I guess the world needs people like you. Since I'm getting the 18 year olds, It's only fair that you compensate on the 16 year olds.
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