"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tough situation w\ friends, what are your thoughts??

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Heres the story: Me and my "friend" Eugene do not get along. We have known eachother since highschool, and got along for the most part throughout all that time. Now we go to a small private college outside LA, and we kind of got backed into being roomates (although this will only last one more month). Anyway, we are sophmores in college now, and ever since we were freshmen we have had bad blood toward eachother. There really isnt any reason why, we just dont like eachother. However, we have the same group of friends, so we tolerate eachother. Well, I was a bit of an as.shole a month ago and confronted him (infront of a few other friends of ours) about not paying the electric bill ontime, and he totally flipped out. He was yelling and shi.t and I just tried to play it cool to make it look like I was unaffected.

UPDATE: In an attempt to normalize things between us, I have apologized for calling him out. Now I am not sure if I feel good about it. It seems like since I was coming to him to apologize, it was like I was seeking his approval. But, some people say that "refusing to apologize is not a sign of strength but weakness. After all, one who refuses to say they're sorry acts out of fear, but one who admits they were wrong and asks for forgiveness acts out of courage." I understand both thoughts, what are yours?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Honestly, if it were me, I would try to forgive him and try to make the friendship work. Try to see what the root of the problem is between you two and try to work it out.

Just my 2 cents. I'm the forgiving type.
 
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I've updated my original post.
 
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