Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tough line to walk

dannowillbookem

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its tough not being an ass but still being c&f u know? i made a little crack on a girl i talk to online and she got all offended (didnt even tell me she was offended) and then some guy ims me telling me he'll beat my face in if i dont treat her with respect.

then now i dont even talk to her cause god i cant get away with anything i mean wtf. and she was a 9.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Smooth Player 056

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Yeah online you dont want to be ****y and funny in my opinion because what makes it c&f is the TONE (the way u say it) and the statement itself. Notice online they dont hear the tone so the statement can esily be misinterpeted for something rude.

And for that chump who talked **** to u......hes probably some AFC whith one itis

-smooth-
 

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lol wtf u expected? u probably said something peverted to that 9 year old when ur 15! lol
 

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He said 'she was a 9'.
An HB9. Not 9yrs old.

But yeah I agree about not being ****y and funny online, because its too hard for the other person to figure out if your serious or not. Just don't do it.

Let the chick know you were kidding. Sound sincere.
 

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ohhh lol my bad! lol well just do like i always do! whenever im kiddin about something i say lol, and instally they know that im just playing around about something that ive said!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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08aisaac

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I do alot of MSNing with chick I don't know and I always act like I am the hottest guy in the world, but with girls I do know I usually just don't talk at all because it is a good way to screw things up.
 

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I'm really good at c+f online.


I just talk about girls being in love with me and stuff.


example


her: are you coming to that party tonight?
me: you only wish i would, so you can be all like "omg that boy is so cute and i want to totally hug him all the time" to your friends.
her: lol oh yeah totally!
me: i might show up, if youre lucky.
 

08aisaac

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I will usually say something dirty and hen when they say, "you're dirty minded" I will usually say something like, What are you alking about because when I say pvssy, I am talking about cat's.

It works good enough.
 

dannowillbookem

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sounds good.

i say lol alot but man she def didnt notice it or whatever. and that guy was definetly afc fag.

she said she digged him though? i mean whats up with that?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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08aisaac

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www.teenspot.com is a pretty good chat site if you want to pick up random online chicks and *****s.
 
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