"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tough line to walk

dannowillbookem

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its tough not being an ass but still being c&f u know? i made a little crack on a girl i talk to online and she got all offended (didnt even tell me she was offended) and then some guy ims me telling me he'll beat my face in if i dont treat her with respect.

then now i dont even talk to her cause god i cant get away with anything i mean wtf. and she was a 9.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah online you dont want to be ****y and funny in my opinion because what makes it c&f is the TONE (the way u say it) and the statement itself. Notice online they dont hear the tone so the statement can esily be misinterpeted for something rude.

And for that chump who talked **** to u......hes probably some AFC whith one itis

-smooth-
 

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lol wtf u expected? u probably said something peverted to that 9 year old when ur 15! lol
 

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He said 'she was a 9'.
An HB9. Not 9yrs old.

But yeah I agree about not being ****y and funny online, because its too hard for the other person to figure out if your serious or not. Just don't do it.

Let the chick know you were kidding. Sound sincere.
 

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ohhh lol my bad! lol well just do like i always do! whenever im kiddin about something i say lol, and instally they know that im just playing around about something that ive said!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I do alot of MSNing with chick I don't know and I always act like I am the hottest guy in the world, but with girls I do know I usually just don't talk at all because it is a good way to screw things up.
 

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I'm really good at c+f online.


I just talk about girls being in love with me and stuff.


example


her: are you coming to that party tonight?
me: you only wish i would, so you can be all like "omg that boy is so cute and i want to totally hug him all the time" to your friends.
her: lol oh yeah totally!
me: i might show up, if youre lucky.
 

08aisaac

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I will usually say something dirty and hen when they say, "you're dirty minded" I will usually say something like, What are you alking about because when I say pvssy, I am talking about cat's.

It works good enough.
 

dannowillbookem

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sounds good.

i say lol alot but man she def didnt notice it or whatever. and that guy was definetly afc fag.

she said she digged him though? i mean whats up with that?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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08aisaac

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www.teenspot.com is a pretty good chat site if you want to pick up random online chicks and *****s.
 
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