Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Tough decision for me. Should I go?

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My girlfriend (past girl bully) asked me if I wanted to go to the club with her and her girlfriends. These are the friends that used to beat me up in college. If I go, they may try to start wit me and break us up. Have yall ever been in this situation before? I'll probably tell her to just have a girl night out. she should understand right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yes.
 

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No, don't go.

'cause if you go, you're gonna get your ass kicked, and then you're gonna come back here and post what happened. I don't wanna hear those stories again lol.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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joecollapoppa,

Listen, dude, I don't know you and I don't know what kind of person you are, but from your 'girl fight' posts (many of them), I can tell you that you should think about being more of a MAN. Letting girls beat you up is ridiculous. You have to put a stop to that sh*t right f*cking now.

The next time they try to pull that trash on you, tell them to step the f*ck off, and mean it, goddammit.

If your girlfriend wants you to go clubbin with her friends, go. Just go. You'll look like a p*ssy if you don't because she'll know exactly why. If her friends want to try and "break you up", so be it. If her friends have that power over her, she's wasting your valuable time.

If you guys get there and her friends try to pull something, tell them to f*ck off and grow up. For God's sake, you guys are all 21+......this kind of behavior should have stopped in high school at best!!

No offense, bro, but grow a pair and get control of the situation - you are a MAN, correct?

I think your way to late though. This thing really needs to DIE.

Go meet some other women.
 

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I already put an end to it. remember when I beat both of them in the park? I challenged them. After that day, they never bothered me again. This happened a good while ago.
 

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But my point was the respect level, dude.
 

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Oh they respected me after that, im sure. I just don't want them to pull any stunts such as flirting with me to get my girl jealous etc. Tellin my girl to dance with other guys, things of that nature.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sounds like a problematic situation. Personally, I'd bounce. It doesn't sound like you've got a lot invested in this girl, and living in NYC, you've got zero reasons to not replace her.

Just my 0.02
 

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Man she's a HB10 and the sex is da bomb. thats 2 right there
Just because she asked me to go to a club is no reason to break up with her. Depending on what goes down at the club will decide whether i'll leave her or not. But that would be a big pvssy move if i break up with her cuz she "asked" me to go.
 
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The "Girl wrestling with Guy" Soap-Opera drama continues!!:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by joecollapoppa
Man she's a HB10 and the sex is da bomb. thats 2 right there
Just because she asked me to go to a club is no reason to break up with her. Depending on what goes down at the club will decide whether i'll leave her or not. But that would be a big pvssy move if i break up with her cuz she "asked" me to go.

No, no. You misunderstood me.

I'm not you, so I don't know. But the whole damn thing is ridiculous. Girls that respect you don't 'beat you up', or have their friends do it....or whatever.

Go clubbin.
 
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