"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay thanks dude. :rolleyes:
It seems abit awfully long but I'll read it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'm building up a network of all the TO wingmen. Everyone: expect to be contacted shortly! Anyone reading this who HASN'T been contacted should PM me! I'll forward your info to everyone in TO!
 

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I think we all need to meet at a coffee shop or something? I'm not sure how all this could be done. It might be a logistic nightmare. (I hope not):confused:

So how many guys we have aboard now? Lets see
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Docs said:
Yeah, logistic nightmare, I don't know Toronto, and I hate the traffic just as much as I don't know Toronto.
Are you comming from a town on the outskirts of Toronto or did you just move to Toronto?
hymmm I think if people are going to meet, a place that is easy to find and public transportation (TTC) access should be taken into consideration.

There must be a good street map you could get for Toronto. Dont go for those booklet maps they are awful. I suggest you go get one of those large sheet maps. A heck alot easier to use.
 

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I'm 3 hours ---> way, Kingston

I know street maps, I drive Ottawa blind, Montreal looking at a map to find where I was supposed to be (because I didn't have the street to all the clubs -_-), I got though Toronto without map, but yeah, someplace easy to reach (and not hell to get to)
 

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hymmm I think it would better if we PM Krassus since he seems to be one of the people coordinating the logistics (of course we should support him as much as we can.).

I presume if your comming to Toronto with a 3 hour ride your going to atleast stay in Toronto for a day or more. It does sound pretty exausting if its a one day thing. Thats a heck of alot of alot of road hours then.
 

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Freddy1 said:
hymmm I think it would better if we PM Krassus since he seems to be one of the people coordinating the logistics (of course we should support him as much as we can.).

I presume if your comming to Toronto with a 3 hour ride your going to atleast stay in Toronto for a day or more. It does sound pretty exausting if its a one day thing. Thats a heck of alot of alot of road hours then.
To Montreal, party and back -> 10 hours.
I'm a nut,
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hmm... okay, nobody wants to take charge?
okay, I'm going to try to arrange something as soon as I get back into town from base. (possibly in 2 weeks)
 

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hmm... okay, nobody wants to take charge?
okay, I'm going to try to arrange something as soon as I get back into town from base. (possibly in 2 weeks)
Try the 1st weekend of September.
 
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Richmond Hill here.... I havn't been on in ages, but due to recent relapses and unfortunate regressingi'm back in the game ;) So i'm up for anything chills...

Cliffs: I'm not here to obsess over women, but rather to thats icing on the cake, its about growth and meeting chillz easy going people who are growing and not **** or measurbating 24/7 b/c of their over-exaggurated attempts at making up for insecurities.... It's all good.
 

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if theres anyone here who lives near York University, or lives in Markham, and has experience with Ross Jeffries or any of the other artists, shoot me an email, and we'll talk about some stuff

[email protected]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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