Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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TORONTO MEET - next weekend (Fri 24th or Sat 25th)

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From the looks of it, quite a few people are up for it. I say we get together on Fri 24th or Sat 25th and hit up a bar and/or a club.

Obviously those of you who under 19 (assuming you don't have a fake id) can't go to a club, but we can always chill on an outdoor patio of some bar - they never ask for id as long as you don't look like a kid.

Post here if you can make it next weekend!

AS OF 10-13-2003:

BAGHEERA - interested
BRAD aka ELIMIDATE - interested
DON_JUAN_20 - interested
ICE COLD - *attending*
JUSTIN aka SUSHI - interested
MAX aka KRASSUS - *attending*
MIKE aka AZN_DJ11 - interested
RUSSEL aka SYNTHESIS - interested
SEAN aka TORONTO'S FINEST - *attending*
VLAD aka CHLYWLY - *attending*
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yea, as Im underage I probably can't go to some fun night club... but there are alternatives... :D

Don't know If I can make it for this weekend though.. I'll see.
 
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Richmondhill, bar sounds good but if there nuff underage folk coming then we can make it a cafe.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sounds interesting but I won't be able to make it. I goto a school just outside toronto so I don't have a car to get there, plus midterms/assignments are crazy right now. If people are interested in doing something over the christmas break, I'll be down for that.
 
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


Christmas Break sounds Great!!!

MID November also!


Sorry, I'm reluctant to go, I'm having a really hard time with fluid mechanics and mec. Exams, labs... MY names Ryan btw.
 
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I'm in.

What are the details?? A club would be best, what type of music are you guys into?
 
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I'm completely and utterly addicted to trance :D

I spoke to Mike aka azn_dj11 and he says he's gonna organize this and get everyone together since i won't have much time this week. I think he suggested a bar named Vinnie's on Richmond? I'm up for anything. Bar, club, whatever.

I dunno about those of us who are under 19 though. I think Ice Cold is, not sure if anyone else.
 
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Cool. I'm more into house, breaks and progressive but all beats are great.

Since I'm 25 ......I'm in only if it's licensed 19+.

From what i've heard jail is not what it's all chalked up to be! ;)

Elimidate
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i'm interested. Saturday works for me.

I'd like to suggest:

1) "My Apartment" on John street - good mid 20s crowd
2) "Vinnies" is a good choice
3) "Devil's Martini" - once again - good mid 20s crowd

-iceH
 
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Just an advance notice for you guys. I may not be able to make it. I'm waiting to hear back from a few of my workers to see if they're coming to help me renov my new house on sunday morning. I'll stay in touch.
 
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I'm interested as well, I think bar is a better idea, clubs are too loud to hear anything.. Umm lemme know whats going on 19+ for sure.
 
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I would love to join, but I gotta go to a concert on the 25th.
But If you guys are doing this on a regular basis, let me know the next time you meet up!

I would really like the whole NLP workshop thing. :D

If your going to make the next meeting, please make it mid day or so, cause I got work from 5-9 pm. Or else I gotta skip work. ;)

SuSHI.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So, guys, are we meeting up tonight? Hopefully it's tonight and not tomorrow.

Tomorrow I'm going with a friend of mine and his girlfriend out to the "country" near kitchener. I've been told to watch what girls I hit on, because all the guys over there like to get drunk and get in fights haha should be uh, an experience.
 
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So after all this no one is in?

Oh well, more chicks for me ;)

Elimidate
 
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I can't make it, just as i thought. I'm busy as hell - in and out all day, literally tearing the walls apart at the 'new' house and trying to turn it into a place i wouldn't be ashamed to call home. You guys probably won't see me til after the middle of next month, which is when i move in. We should DEFINITELY hit up Guv on Nov 22nd! Can't afford to miss that!
 
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