"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TORONTO MEET - next weekend (Fri 24th or Sat 25th)

Krassus

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From the looks of it, quite a few people are up for it. I say we get together on Fri 24th or Sat 25th and hit up a bar and/or a club.

Obviously those of you who under 19 (assuming you don't have a fake id) can't go to a club, but we can always chill on an outdoor patio of some bar - they never ask for id as long as you don't look like a kid.

Post here if you can make it next weekend!

AS OF 10-13-2003:

BAGHEERA - interested
BRAD aka ELIMIDATE - interested
DON_JUAN_20 - interested
ICE COLD - *attending*
JUSTIN aka SUSHI - interested
MAX aka KRASSUS - *attending*
MIKE aka AZN_DJ11 - interested
RUSSEL aka SYNTHESIS - interested
SEAN aka TORONTO'S FINEST - *attending*
VLAD aka CHLYWLY - *attending*
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea, as Im underage I probably can't go to some fun night club... but there are alternatives... :D

Don't know If I can make it for this weekend though.. I'll see.
 

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Richmondhill, bar sounds good but if there nuff underage folk coming then we can make it a cafe.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sounds interesting but I won't be able to make it. I goto a school just outside toronto so I don't have a car to get there, plus midterms/assignments are crazy right now. If people are interested in doing something over the christmas break, I'll be down for that.
 

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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^


Christmas Break sounds Great!!!

MID November also!


Sorry, I'm reluctant to go, I'm having a really hard time with fluid mechanics and mec. Exams, labs... MY names Ryan btw.
 

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I'm in.

What are the details?? A club would be best, what type of music are you guys into?
 

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I'm completely and utterly addicted to trance :D

I spoke to Mike aka azn_dj11 and he says he's gonna organize this and get everyone together since i won't have much time this week. I think he suggested a bar named Vinnie's on Richmond? I'm up for anything. Bar, club, whatever.

I dunno about those of us who are under 19 though. I think Ice Cold is, not sure if anyone else.
 

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Cool. I'm more into house, breaks and progressive but all beats are great.

Since I'm 25 ......I'm in only if it's licensed 19+.

From what i've heard jail is not what it's all chalked up to be! ;)

Elimidate
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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i'm interested. Saturday works for me.

I'd like to suggest:

1) "My Apartment" on John street - good mid 20s crowd
2) "Vinnies" is a good choice
3) "Devil's Martini" - once again - good mid 20s crowd

-iceH
 

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Just an advance notice for you guys. I may not be able to make it. I'm waiting to hear back from a few of my workers to see if they're coming to help me renov my new house on sunday morning. I'll stay in touch.
 

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I'm interested as well, I think bar is a better idea, clubs are too loud to hear anything.. Umm lemme know whats going on 19+ for sure.
 

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I would love to join, but I gotta go to a concert on the 25th.
But If you guys are doing this on a regular basis, let me know the next time you meet up!

I would really like the whole NLP workshop thing. :D

If your going to make the next meeting, please make it mid day or so, cause I got work from 5-9 pm. Or else I gotta skip work. ;)

SuSHI.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So, guys, are we meeting up tonight? Hopefully it's tonight and not tomorrow.

Tomorrow I'm going with a friend of mine and his girlfriend out to the "country" near kitchener. I've been told to watch what girls I hit on, because all the guys over there like to get drunk and get in fights haha should be uh, an experience.
 

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So after all this no one is in?

Oh well, more chicks for me ;)

Elimidate
 

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I can't make it, just as i thought. I'm busy as hell - in and out all day, literally tearing the walls apart at the 'new' house and trying to turn it into a place i wouldn't be ashamed to call home. You guys probably won't see me til after the middle of next month, which is when i move in. We should DEFINITELY hit up Guv on Nov 22nd! Can't afford to miss that!
 
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