"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TORONTO JAN 17: Insane Party @ Guv / Koolhaus

Krassus

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Incredible line-up! Reduced cover guestlist available to all DJs! Let me know if you've got requests, i may be able to get em played! Get your asses down there people!!


-THE GUVERNMENT-
ANNE SAVAGE (UK)
MARK OLIVER

-KOOL HAUS-
JOSH GABRIEL & DAVE DRESDEN (US)
INFECTED MUSHROOM - *LIVE PA* (Israel)
RANK 1 - DJ set (Holland)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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YOU SUCK BOOOO BOOO BOOOO !!!.. hmm maybe ill come.
 

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Its 19+ isnt it? Grr..
 

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Confirmed so far, and $5 says this list won't change :D

chlywly
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Guestlist is set to moi +5. Line bypass + $15 cover before 1AM.
 
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Hey Krass, you know my word is good ;)

This time, I'll show you the art of # closing!

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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We should get together next weekend and discuss pickup strategies. What do you guys think?

P.S. One, maybe two other non-members are also coming to the party.



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AS OF JAN 1, THE GUESTLIST IS CLOSED! THOSE WHO DECIDE TO ATTEND PAST THIS POINT WILL HAVE TO WAIT IN LINE AND PAY FULL COVER. THANKS FOR YOUR INTEREST.
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still the one what did you mean by this - "GOOD ONE "

To Krassus defence, at least he is trying to set stuff up. He called me and I was out of the city and still am. We all have different lives and priorities.

Nonetheless, I've sarged with him and he has some skills. I think if you redirected your sarcasm into something positve maybe, just maybe you would learn something.

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Looks like it's gonna be a slightly shorter night than usual, with the last DJ coming on at 3:30. I'm guessing we'll be out at 6 or so. So we gotta be there at 12:00, when Gabriel & Dresden come on. Here are the set times:

GUVERNMENT
Anne Savage 1am-3am
Mark Oliver 10pm-1am, 3am-close

KOOL HAUS
Deko-ze & Addy 10pm-12am
Gabriel & Dresden 12am-2am
Infected Mushroom 2am-3:30am
Rank 1 3:30am-close

Also, so far it's:

myself
vlad +1
brad
mike
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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