"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TORONTO JAN 17: Insane Party @ Guv / Koolhaus

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Incredible line-up! Reduced cover guestlist available to all DJs! Let me know if you've got requests, i may be able to get em played! Get your asses down there people!!


-THE GUVERNMENT-
ANNE SAVAGE (UK)
MARK OLIVER

-KOOL HAUS-
JOSH GABRIEL & DAVE DRESDEN (US)
INFECTED MUSHROOM - *LIVE PA* (Israel)
RANK 1 - DJ set (Holland)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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YOU SUCK BOOOO BOOO BOOOO !!!.. hmm maybe ill come.
 

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Its 19+ isnt it? Grr..
 

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Confirmed so far, and $5 says this list won't change :D

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krassus

Guestlist is set to moi +5. Line bypass + $15 cover before 1AM.
 
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Hey Krass, you know my word is good ;)

This time, I'll show you the art of # closing!

Elimidate
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We should get together next weekend and discuss pickup strategies. What do you guys think?

P.S. One, maybe two other non-members are also coming to the party.



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AS OF JAN 1, THE GUESTLIST IS CLOSED! THOSE WHO DECIDE TO ATTEND PAST THIS POINT WILL HAVE TO WAIT IN LINE AND PAY FULL COVER. THANKS FOR YOUR INTEREST.
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still the one what did you mean by this - "GOOD ONE "

To Krassus defence, at least he is trying to set stuff up. He called me and I was out of the city and still am. We all have different lives and priorities.

Nonetheless, I've sarged with him and he has some skills. I think if you redirected your sarcasm into something positve maybe, just maybe you would learn something.

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Looks like it's gonna be a slightly shorter night than usual, with the last DJ coming on at 3:30. I'm guessing we'll be out at 6 or so. So we gotta be there at 12:00, when Gabriel & Dresden come on. Here are the set times:

GUVERNMENT
Anne Savage 1am-3am
Mark Oliver 10pm-1am, 3am-close

KOOL HAUS
Deko-ze & Addy 10pm-12am
Gabriel & Dresden 12am-2am
Infected Mushroom 2am-3:30am
Rank 1 3:30am-close

Also, so far it's:

myself
vlad +1
brad
mike
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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