"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Toronto Djs Check In
- Thread starter Krassus
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hollowpoint
Master Don Juan
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20 year old hot Asian male here!
2nd year UoGuelph
living in TO
got msn? PM me!
and I also like long walks on the beach!
[look]aRhino
Don Juan
Just finished 2nd year at U ot T, and looking to get out there and develop a game.
Damn comp sci, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands, get out there, and become a DJ
So it'll be a bit before i'm superslick or anything.Rhino
PS. (i forgot to add this earlier) Tell me if theres gonna be some sort of meeting, i wouldn't mind chillin with some of you guys for a bit. msn me at kihriban@hotmail
Canadiandon
Don Juan
Hey guys I'm a 25 year old guy living in Toronto. I love pickin up chicks from the chapters, on bloor. I also have a strange fetish for
older chinese women 30-45 years old, so I am always in china town tryin to pick up the ones that work in some of the stores. My latest success is with a fit tight bodied chinese lady that owns one of the VCD stores down town she is 38, she cooks chinese food for me after we have sex hehe its great! and a chinese lady that owns a sword/weapons store. I also like pickin up fresh University of T.O. girls sitting alone in coffee shops to. Nice to meet you my fellow playas! Its summer time the T&A is out and about so lets have some fun guys!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
hehehehe, I've always found Toronto to be more active on the internet than a lot of other cities, especially NYC. This Toronto thread has 3 pages, and the NYC one has 4 POSTS... It's interesting if nothing else.Originally posted by Ice Cold
Holy ****!
Why are so many DJs are from toronto? It's fukkin creepy
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CadillacCTS
Don Juan
That's all u get for free, biatch
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SealTeamSix
Don Juan
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I live in downtown T.O.
I usually go out with wingman to hottest club and do PU ..
But when we go out .. we try to have fun .. have drink .. talk .. feel the night .. PU here and there .. dance etc ..
My game is just above AFC .. my wing is better than me .. but we still get along fine ..
If you wanna cruise the night with us .. then give me a shout on MSN.
[email protected]
Maverick001
Senior Don Juan
What's up?
I'm in the west end of the GTA in a location that allows for easy access to all major highways. The longest run would be about a half an hour to get the 404.
Just started the BC, today's the 1st day
Give me a shout: [email protected] or PM on here.
Later.