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I'm 3 hours east [Kingston], but up for a meeting in TO or Ottawa sometime in September.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Who are you talking to?Krassus said:LTR is finito. I'm backPM me!
Everybody!!Pink said:Who are you talking to?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
yo krassus, on the WSA site where does one go to read your story?Krassus said:LTR is finito. I'm backPM me!
It's not on there. I know, i know... i've been asked many times. For some reason, i just feel like i don't really deserve to write one about myself yet. I know i've achieved some great things, but realistically, i'm still far, far from where i want to be and i don't want to take my motivation away by congratulating myself too early. I really don't know how to handle this though, as a LOT of people are asking. They'll hear little hints here and there and get all excited. I'm definitely gonna write a book (a REAL book) at some point in time, and i'm really not sure how i could sum everything up into a single post. Perhaps i'll come up with a way to post some kind of a brief summary, and outline what i've been able to achieve without having to get overly descriptive, and spending days, or weeks writing it.bigdan said:yo krassus, on the WSA site where does one go to read your story?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.