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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
hey dudes. ive found some wings and go sarging out with them occassionally. tonight will be another night, at a salsa club! those who'd like to join us on winging gimme an email, [email protected]
i see a lotta people here saying PM them but there's wayy too many to bother with
i see a lotta people here saying PM them but there's wayy too many to bother with
It's not on there. I know, i know... i've been asked many times. For some reason, i just feel like i don't really deserve to write one about myself yet. I know i've achieved some great things, but realistically, i'm still far, far from where i want to be and i don't want to take my motivation away by congratulating myself too early. I really don't know how to handle this though, as a LOT of people are asking. They'll hear little hints here and there and get all excited. I'm definitely gonna write a book (a REAL book) at some point in time, and i'm really not sure how i could sum everything up into a single post. Perhaps i'll come up with a way to post some kind of a brief summary, and outline what i've been able to achieve without having to get overly descriptive, and spending days, or weeks writing it.bigdan said:
P.S. I just realized that my signature does make it look like WSA has a story which explains my success. Well, technically it does. You'll notice that WSA is broken down into several categories, and these were modeled after elements of my own life which i chose to focus on. I have a LOT of posts (over 400!) on there, and in combination, they represent hours upon hours of reading, which could teach someone a LOT about achieving the kind of success that i've been able to achieve.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.