"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Topics to talk about..

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Sacrifice

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Hey, i need alittle bit help here with something.
I know there are endless of topics to discuss, but when those topics goes out of date or really don`t know what to talk about, then youre stuck.


anyway; what kind of topics do you guys bring up/talk about about when you have been talked with a girl for awhile and meet her everyday on bus or school++, and starting to know her?

Do you guys use the same question every day?
ex: "how you doing", "what`s up?" "... where did you get that ;object;" those regular questions.


and what do u guys do when someone just say "I don`t know"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dude.. ... tell some thing about your self too...

for eg : if she says " I 'm fine"..

say " I'm great... you know.i just happened to be at( give oyur own true story)

she will be interested ... she cant reject you , cuz you never gave her a chance....

try this and let me know....
 
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Talk about HER.
 
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Dude it's all about vibing and branching conversations.

I used to SUCK at talking to chicks for extended periods of time but as soon as I understood how to branch, it's never been a problem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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